Although lovers are the two most intimate people, there are still things we need to pay attention to. Don’t ruin the relationship because of small things. Today I will bring you what is the most taboo topic between lovers. , if you are not sure, just come and take a look.
1. Constantly comparing yourself to your ex
"XX has never been like this before, so you can't ...?
2. Always poke fun at the other person’s low self-esteem
“You still eat, you have a double chin”
“If you Just grow a few centimeters taller, hey..."
3. Breaking up at every turn
"My friend doesn't think we can live a long-term relationship, so we should break up. ..”
4. Belittle the other person’s interests and hobbies
“It’s too weird for you to wear this out...”
“Playing games every day is a waste of time , both good and fun-loving"
5. Revealing old scores
"Last time... I didn't even settle the accounts with you, and you..."
6. Cold war and closed-door communication
“Stop talking, I don’t want to talk now”
“Can you shut up!”
7. Aggressiveness
“So? Then what?”
8. Comparing other people’s objects
"Everyone who is interested in xx is..."
9. Swearing very unpleasant words
"I TM*& #...@%^**"
10. Repeatedly mention the unhappy things about the other person
“Yesterday... you were so funny, haha!”
11. Personalize the other person Denial
"People like you really..."
12. Moral kidnapping
"You are my partner, shouldn't you..." "?"
13. Excessive output of negative energy to the other party
"I'm really sad, people like me... may never..."< /p>
14. Pry into the privacy that the other party doesn’t want to mention
“Why did your parents divorce?”
15. Imperative expressions
"You must give me today...otherwise I..."
16. Treat sex as a transaction
"Today...should you..."
17. Withdrawing too much money
“It’s almost XX Festival again, and poverty limits me...”
“I really want it...but I have no money. ”
18. Force the other party to admit their mistakes
“So it’s my problem? Am I wrong?”
19. Unreasonable suspicion
"You... don't love me anymore?"
"Do you want to break up?"
20. Constant denial and accusation
"You're really not good at this"
"You're not suitable... you'd better not... in the future"
21. Be reasonable regardless of the situation
< p> "Don't...just listen to my analysis with you"If you often say these words, change it before it's too late~!
