Chatting with strange girls is a headache for many boys because they don’t know what topics to talk about to arouse their interest. This article will give suggestions from several aspects to help you find the right topic, chat happily with strange girls, and possibly develop feelings.
1. Observe the surrounding environment
When chatting with strange girls, you can first observe the surrounding environment and find Common points or interesting things as topics. For example, if you are in a coffee shop, you can ask her what kind of coffee she likes to drink, or recommend a coffee that you like. If you are taking a walk in the park, you can talk about the surrounding scenery, flowers, trees, etc.
2. Understand the other person’s interests and hobbies
It is also a good way to find topics by asking about the other person’s interests and hobbies. You can ask her what she usually likes to do, what movies she watches, music she listens to, games she plays, etc. Then expand the topic based on her answers and share your own opinions and experiences.
3. Talk about travel experiences
Travel is a great topic for people to share their experiences and feelings. You can ask her where she has been and if there are any memorable events or attractions. If you have been to the same place, talk about your feelings and experiences.
4. Talk about food
Food is an easily relatable topic because everyone likes to eat delicious food. You can ask her what kind of cuisine she likes to eat, what special foods she has tried, etc. If you are dining together, you can recommend some delicious dishes or restaurants.
5. Talking about culture and art
Culture and art is a relatively advanced topic, but it can also show a person's connotation and quality. You can ask her what kind of movies she likes to watch, what kind of music she likes to listen to, what books she likes to read, etc. If you are good at a certain field, you can share your knowledge and insights.
It is not difficult to chat with strange girls. As long as you find the right topic, you can communicate easily and happily. Observing the surrounding environment, understanding each other's interests and hobbies, talking about travel experiences, talking about food, talking about culture and art, etc. are all good topic choices. I hope these tips can help you find the right topics to talk about and develop feelings for a new girl.
