In social situations, chatting with girls is a very important thing. However, some people may find it difficult to start and don’t know how to find a topic. Today we will introduce a few techniques to help you quickly improve your emotional intelligence and learn to chat happily with girls.
1. Observe the surrounding environment
The surrounding environment can provide many topics. For example, if you are at a party, you could ask her if she likes this type of party. Or prefer another type of party? If you were in a coffee shop, you could ask her what kind of coffee she likes. Or recommend some delicious coffee for her to try.
In addition, you can also find topics by observing her clothes, accessories, etc. For example, if she is wearing a beautiful dress, you can compliment her on her beautiful dress and ask where she bought the dress.
2. Ask questions
Asking questions is one of the most common ways to chat with girls. However, pay attention to the quality of the questions. Don't ask too mundane and boring questions, such as "What do you like to eat?" Such questions will not only fail to arouse a girl's interest, but will also make her think that you lack creativity.
Instead, ask interesting, in-depth questions. For example, "If you had a wish that could come true, what would you wish to come true?" or, "What good movies have you seen recently?" Such questions can arouse girls' thinking and interest.
3. Share your story
Sharing your story is another great way to chat. By sharing your experiences and stories, you can help a girl get to know you better and inspire her to share her own stories.
However, be careful about what you share. Do not share experiences that are too personal or negative, such as family conflicts, work pressure, etc. Instead, share fun, positive experiences like travel, sports, music, etc.
4. Pay attention to verbal expression and body language
When chatting with girls, verbal expression and body language are very important. First, pay attention to your wording. Don't use overly vulgar or cold language. Instead, use warm, friendly language to express yourself.
Secondly, body language is also very important. Be careful to maintain good posture and eye contact. Don't stare at a girl with wide eyes, as this will make her feel uncomfortable. Instead, maintain appropriate eye contact and smile.
5. Respect girls
Finally, respecting girls is one of the principles that must be followed when chatting with girls. Do not use insulting language or behave in a disrespectful manner toward women. Instead, respect a woman’s opinions and choices, and give her enough space and time.
When chatting with girls, pay attention to the surrounding environment, ask questions, share your own stories, pay attention to language expression and body languageAnd respect girls. Through these techniques, you can quickly improve your emotional intelligence and learn to chat happily with girls.
