I think most girls know what "having a pleasant chat" means. She chatted from A to B, and from B to C. Her mouth was dry and her tongue was dry, and she drank a bottle of water. As a result, you kept having fun. You thought you were smiling lovingly, but in fact she was MMP in her heart, sarcastically saying that you were stupid and didn't know how to pretend to understand. So when you are chasing a girl, what should you talk to her about every day? The following 3 points are the correct operation:
1. Chat about girls’ hobbies
Before getting involved with a girl, it is best to understand her interests and hobbies first so that you can attract them from the chat. she. After all, you don’t know her very well, so you might as well take advantage of this gap to catch up on her lessons.
What are the topics that a girl is most interested in?
It’s all hidden in her Weibo Moments QQ space, even details such as message boards, personal signatures, and Meituan takeout.
She posted this information on a public platform, either to show off or because she really wanted to share it. These are her daily routines and are not too private.
Relying on these channels, you can discover the general elements of her life, and speculate on her hobbies, daily values, and rejections, which can be fully expanded during the chat.
2. What should you talk about when chatting with girls?
Once you have done enough homework, you will find that the chat elements are so So many, which one should we talk about? Remember this sentence: If you want to chat with a girl, just talk about something she is interested in but doesn’t know much about. If she is interested, she will want to talk. If she is not familiar with something, she will be curious about it. If you do a little homework, talk with some depth, talk in detail, and talk about it carefully, she will applaud you.
As for how to bring up these topics? Don't be too deliberate. The atmosphere is very important. Create an environment where everything seems natural.
For example, an encounter in a study room can lead to a romantic drama of "this is your book" and "no, this is your book".
The most important thing is to capture her emotional window of release. For example, if a girl tells you: "I haven't had much appetite lately," how would you respond? Ordering takeout for her? Or buy her a bunch of snacks that she likes? Or tell her to drink more hot water, as not eating is bad for her stomach?
No, you should answer like this: "Have you encountered anything troublesome recently? Can you tell me about it?"
You must know that girls' low pressure is basically related to their emotions. , her grumbling and complaining are never meant to solve problems, but to release emotions. What makes a girl have the "impulse to fall in love" is that she can find her long-lost emotional needs in a certain man. Once the compensation for this need becomes complete, she will be completely trapped.
3. Match chatting with dating
There is a saying: No matter how sweet you are, you have a good mouth. , no better thanReally good arms and legs. Chatting is not the purpose, dating is the purpose, dating is not the purpose, getting it is the purpose.
Are you talking to her every day because you want to have online dating? But girls really don’t have that much time to talk to you. She also needs to get a beauty treatment, go shopping, watch American dramas and learn flower arranging, so she doesn’t want to keep comparing herself to you. Look, did you have a very exciting and ambiguous conversation at the beginning, but she stopped talking to you after a while?
That’s right, chatting can’t be fruitful. She can actively chat with you at the beginning, which means that you already have some advantages over other boys, but you don't ask for a date, and chatting without a date is just a hooligan. Only when you can make a date can you prove that you are a good conversationalist. If you don't dare to ask someone out, you'd better just stay where it's cool.
