Question: I met a girl on a blind date. At first, I chatted with her every day and met once a week, but then I gradually felt that she was lukewarm when chatting with me. Until three months later, she didn't like to reply to chats. She said that she was busy with work and didn't like chatting after work. She could send a message every three to five days, but after a few words, there was nothing. I would like to ask if this is normal. ?
What should I do if the girl I met on a blind date is lukewarm in chatting with her?
Answer: You must be in this state Abnormal. If the girl on the blind date is really interested in you, then the normal state should be that she chats with you more and more actively, and your dates become more and more frequent. What your current state shows is that the girl on the blind date is interested in you. Unintentionally, the reason why I occasionally reply to your messages is either to tease you or to give the introducer face. If there is a quarrel, everyone will look bad.
And actually, brother, you had a good chance at the beginning, but as time went on, the relationship did not progress further, and it would not work to remain at the stage of chatting and meeting. We meet once a week, and almost twelve times in three months, so there are still many opportunities.
Now that we have reached the stage of a blind date and the girl is very enthusiastic at the beginning, we can’t wait for her to take the initiative. We might as well find an opportunity to buy gifts and be prepared at all times. When the emotion reaches a certain level, we can express her feelings. Sometimes Maybe that's all that's missing. I guess the girl may feel that you are hesitant about her and may have given up on you.
And for three months, chatting every day and meeting every week gave you a chance, but you didn't grasp it. It's been three months, and people are no longer patient or interested in you. How can they still chat with you on time and enthusiastically? Moreover, if you are a sunny, wealthy, humorous and gentle man, will she be lukewarm to you? If you are not, then asking someone if they don’t reply is abnormal without first reflecting on your own problem. This is the logic of a gangster. Think about your own problems in advance and don’t blame gravity for constipation.
Therefore, in this case, it is recommended that you do not continue to stalk, because the girl’s attitude is actually very obvious. You can tactfully tell the introducer that you two are not suitable, that you don't feel like it, etc., and then you can go meet other girls, and don't waste time on impossible things. You know, you have already reached the stage of a blind date, and if you are still putting on airs, it is obvious that you don't like you. Why are you so hot and cold? Why don't you hurry up and change to the next one, waiting to pick up the child?
