When chatting with a girl we just met, we need to pay attention to some skills in order to better establish a good relationship. The following is a collection of some chatting skills, I hope it will be helpful to everyone.
1. Be polite
We should always be polite when chatting with girls. This includes using appropriate titles, avoiding vulgar language and inappropriate humor. If we want girls to like us, we have to act like a gentleman.
In addition, during the chat process, we should also respect the girl’s opinions and views and give her enough space to express her thoughts. This makes girls feel respected and cared for, making it easier to build trust and friendship with us.
2. Pay attention to each other
When chatting, we should pay as much attention to each other as possible. This includes asking her about her hobbies, work or studies, etc., and actively listening to her answers. In this way, we can better understand the girl's personality and preferences and thus communicate with her better.
At the same time, we should also share our experiences and thoughts as much as possible so that girls can understand us better. However, when sharing, we need to be careful not to be too self-centered, but to pay attention to the other person's reaction and adjust our expression appropriately.
3. Avoid touching on privacy issues
When chatting with girls, we should avoid touching on privacy issues. This includes asking about sensitive topics such as her family background, finances, and love life. If we ask these questions too much, it’s easy for a girl to feel uncomfortable or lose trust.
On the contrary, we can understand the girl's situation through other ways, such as observing her behavior and listening to her daily chores. This makes girls feel more relaxed and comfortable, making it easier to build a good relationship with us.
4. Stay positive and optimistic
When chatting with girls, we should always maintain a positive and optimistic attitude. This includes using positive language and avoiding complaints and negativity. If we can convey positive energy and confidence, then girls will be more attracted to us.
At the same time, during the chat process, we should also create as much joy and pleasant atmosphere as possible. This can be done by sharing funny stories, joking, or giving each other little surprises.
5. Respect each other’s time
When chatting with girls, we should respect each other’s time. This includes avoiding disturbing her at inappropriate times, not letting chats last too long, etc. If we can respect each other's time and life, then girls will be more willing to date us.
In addition, at the end of the chat, we should also say goodbye politely and express our gratitude andbless. This makes girls feel noticed and respected, making it easier to build a good relationship with us.
The above is a collection of several chatting skills I have summarized with girls I just met. I hope you can use these skills in your daily life to build better relationships.
