My girlfriend often says "stop doing this", how should you answer? Here are a few possible scenarios and answers.
1. Your girlfriend thinks you always solve problems in the same way, which makes her feel bored and disappointed.
Answer: I understand, I will try more different ways to solve problems and make our lives more interesting and fulfilling.
2. Your girlfriend feels that you often repeat your own topics or behaviors, which makes her feel irritated and bored.
Answer: Sorry, I didn't realize this. I will pay attention to my words and deeds to avoid repetition and monotony.
3. Your girlfriend thinks you are always using the same old tricks to cheer her up and make her feel ignored and unappreciated.
Answer: I know, I will try more novel ways to express my love and care, so that you can feel my sincerity and intention.
4. Your girlfriend feels that you are always playing with her feelings, making her feel uneasy and lost.
Answer: I never meant to hurt your feelings. If my words or actions have a negative impact on you, please tell me and I will correct it and try to do better.
5. Your girlfriend thinks you always handle conflicts in the same way, making her feel unable to communicate and solve problems.
Answer: I will try more different ways to deal with our differences and conflicts so that we can communicate and solve problems more effectively.
When your girlfriend says "stop doing this", it may be because she feels you lack innovation and change, or because she feels ignored and unappreciated. As boyfriends, we should respect our girlfriend's thoughts and feelings, and work hard to improve our words and deeds to make our relationship more healthy and stable.
