Awkward chatting is a word that often occurs when straight men flirt with girls. Just like Murphy's law, the more straight men are afraid of awkward chatting, the more likely it is that awkward chatting will occur during chatting. Awkward chatting will make the distance between boys and girls further and further away. Therefore, when encountering awkward chatting situations, we need to use some clever methods to resolve the awkward atmosphere, so that even if awkward chatting occurs, your solution will be This method will also make girls think you have emotional intelligence!
Method 1: Create attraction
Don’t want to be embarrassed If you want to chat, you have to understand the reason why the awkward chat happened - they are not interested in you. For a person who is not interested, how can you be willing to cooperate with him to chat? Therefore, it is very important to create your attraction before chatting or during chatting.
However, there are also many straight men who directly "promote themselves" as soon as they come up. First of all, it means that this is not to show attraction, but to show off in an offensive way. Therefore, when creating attraction, you should be vague and vague, which will not only appear casual but also make girls curious about you. The atmosphere of awkward chats before has completely disappeared, and girls’ interest in you has also been greatly improved. This is one of the ways to solve awkward chats.
Method 2: Topic guidance
If you are chatting with a girl, you don’t know what to talk about. What should not be talked about, what should be talked about now, what will be talked about later, so for two people who have just met not long ago, it is absolutely normal for awkward conversations to happen. Generally speaking, when flirting with girls, boys are mostly the leader of the topic (if a girl is the leader of the topic, it means that she is hinting that you can flirt with her), so you need to understand the girl's points of interest.
For example, if she likes gossip, you can talk about politics to her. She likes comics and you talk about football with her. This is definitely the wrong topic guide, so quickly grasping her points of interest through her circle of friends, as well as the tone and emphasis of her speaking style, is an important skill for solving awkward conversations.
Method 3: Emotional resonance
A conversation that can arouse emotional resonance in a chat is of high quality. content of the conversation. When you find her point of interest, but you oppose her point of view in every way, can the conversation continue like this? She thinks Xiao Zhan is more handsome than Li Xian, but you insist on arguing with her that Li Xian is more handsome than Xiao Zhan, even if you are in her Chatting in areas of interest will only make her laugh at you.
Therefore, when chatting, if you agree with the other party's point of view appropriately and express some different perspectives, then the other party will easily resonate emotionally with you. Even if it is an awkward chat, the emotions will begin to resonate. Then the awkward chat will It will also appear to be so meaningful.
The same principle remains the same. To tease a girl, you have to tease her heart and understand what she likes and dislikes., seeking emotional resonance from her points of interest, which is the core concept of solving awkward conversations.
