If you want to fall in love with a girl, you must first slowly introduce emotions into the topic. However, many boys with emotional problems don't know how to chat with girls, and they either don't chat or chat awkwardly. When chatting with girls, not knowing how to start the topic and lacking love skills is a common problem for many single men.
Common awkward chats usually have the following problems:
1. Boring questions and blind nonsense</ h3>
The reason why many boys chat awkwardly is basically because the topics they introduce are too embarrassing, such as whether they have gone to work, whether they have eaten, what they are doing, and various greetings. These topics are expandable, chattable, and interesting. It's very low-level. If it's caused by a stranger, it will usually be regarded as boring chatting and blind nonsense by girls. If you try to establish emotional resonance or even a romantic relationship in this way of chatting, there will definitely be many obstacles and obstacles.
2. Cross-examining details and investigating background
When some boys can’t find a topic, they want to start communication by getting to know girls, so there are various "cross-examinations," An awkward chat scene like "checking the background": What is your education level, how many times you have been in love, where your hometown is, what you are doing now... If you just meet a girl, asking some relatively private questions will usually make the girl lose her good feelings. Sensibility thinks that your emotional intelligence is insufficient, and your emotional problems are even more difficult to develop.
What love chat skills are needed to avoid awkward conversations?
1. Get to know girls before chatting
When you get along with different people, you need to treat them in different ways. The same is true for chatting with girls. How and what to talk about depends on the girl's personality. Therefore, you need to have a clear understanding of the girl's interests and hobbies before chatting. It is very important to generate emotional resonance by raising topics about the girl's interests. It's easy, and it's also the most commonly used technique in the love guide.
2. Pay attention to girls’ daily life
If you don’t know what happens to the girl you like in daily life, and you don’t pay attention to her updates, then it will be difficult to continue the topic. Expand, it will inevitably return to the state of awkward chatting in the end. In order to avoid awkward chats, you need to always pay attention to the girls' daily lives like a voyeur or a spy, so that both parties can chat freely.
3. Talk about past memories
Daily happenings may not be enough to avoid awkward conversations. , maybe the girl you like never posts, or maybe this girl’s daily work and life are very monotonous. When developing a love relationship, you can supplement the material of the two people’s chat by talking about past memories, such as once loving a certain sport. , the classic books I have read and publishedBy getting to know each other and getting to know each other, the emotions will naturally heat up!
