When chatting with a girl you just met, you will often encounter situations where you send a message and the other party takes a long time to reply. Faced with this situation, many boys are puzzled and then become upset and let the chat turn into a mess. You are bombarded with messages, which makes the other party feel disgusted. The girl always takes a long time to reply to your messages. What else can you do except wait?
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First of all, you need to know why girls always take a long time to reply to your messages. Generally, there are three reasons:
1. I was busy at the time and had time to reply to you, but I don’t want to reply to you
At this time, the girl is busy with business, she is working. At this time, her energy is focused on another thing. Even if she has time to reply to you, she still doesn't want to reply to you, which means that when you chat with her, the girl will feel tired and not interested in chatting with you.
2. I was busy at the time and had no time to reply to you, and I didn’t want to reply to you when I saw it afterwards.
In this case, the girl is also busy with her own affairs, and her mind is on another person. If she doesn't have free time to reply to you on this matter, and she doesn't reply to you when she's done, it means that the girl doesn't pay attention to you.
3. I don’t want to reply to you
If a girl simply doesn’t want to reply to you, it means that in between During the chat, you did something that girls didn’t like.
Among these three situations, it all shows one thing, that is, girls are not interested in you, or girls have not taken you seriously yet. So what should we do in the face of this situation?
1. Control yourself before replying and don’t make up for it
First of all, let’s talk about “make up” means that when a girl doesn’t reply to your last message, you still go Additional replies to the second and third messages.
I believe that when chatting with girls, many people will naturally "fill in the conversation." In fact, it is very annoying for girls to talk to girls because they say that they are busy and haven’t replied to you. If you ask her why she didn’t reply, you are actually asking her to admit her mistakes. This approach can easily lead to a breakdown in your relationship. The relationship becomes tense. For example:
Boy: What are you busy with? You haven’t replied to me.
Female: I’m in a meeting and I haven’t looked at my phone. I’m sorry.
Doing this is to wait for the girl’s reply, but you will also find that the atmosphere of the chat becomes stiff. The correct approach is definitely not to directly ask the girl what she did before, which will give the girl a feeling of being ignored. The correct operation should avoid this direction of blame misunderstanding.
For example:
Boy: You must have been robbed in the afternoon and taken to be the wife of Yazhai, right?
Girl: Haha, the meeting took too long Forgot to reply to you
2. Reduce contact and lower her alertness
Once or twice a week is enough. Use retreat to relieve her alertness, and she will remain loyal to you. Alienation is because you have too much demand and put pressure on her. During this period, enriching your life and WeChat circle of friends and showing your high value will also make her. If she becomes curious, especially when you suddenly disappear, she will be curious about why you suddenly ignored her, and she will be curious about your life and see what you have been doing recently.
3. Provide emotional value to girls
The process of chatting with girls is actually providing emotional value, such as humor, teasing, push and pull, etc. Let girls I think you are interesting, not flattering, because chatting is to make communication easier, not to make girls feel oppressive.
