For girls you have just met, you definitely need to chat first. Chasing girls right away is not what we honest people do, and it is easy to increase the failure rate - girls you just met will think your love is casual and superficial. . Therefore, in order to catch up with the girl we just met, we must learn how to chat and find topics when we just met, preferably some chatting skills that will make girls excited!
How to find topics for chatting when you have just met
1. Create a good impression
Use the Franklin Effect [The best way to make a girl you just met like you is not to help her, but Let her help you. If you want to gain her favor, there's no harm in speaking up. 】Create good impressions, shorten the distance between you and girls, and create conditions for chatting.
2. Active contact
If you want to catch up with a girl you like, it is difficult to wait and wait. You must proactively contact girls. Unless a girl likes you, she will take the initiative to find you. Chat, otherwise your hesitation/delay is just to sit there and wait, because the girl you just met needs to be "reserved".
3. Avoid forcing awkward conversations
For girls you have just met, don’t talk too much nonsense and force awkward conversations. You can’t just talk to her if you want to chat, but you need to have a When it comes to chatting topics, go to chat with a girl you just met. Otherwise, you can only force an awkward chat, which will make the girl think you are boring.
4. Control the rhythm of language
Different relationship periods require different language arts, such as When you first get acquainted, it's best to be polite, polite, and humorous. During this period, using glib talk, ambiguous teasing, and earthy love talk with girls will make girls think you are a scumbag who flirts with girls whenever you see them.
5. End the topic in time
Even if you like to chat with her, you need to stop it when it is time to end the topic, otherwise it will easily delay or affect the girl's own life, or even Cause girls to have a negative view of you - for example, when a girl replies to you with "Uh-huh", "Yeah, right", "Okay" and other words to end the chat, you still pester her to talk about some topics she doesn't want to talk about.
6. Prepare emergency topics for cold scenes
A girl you just met has many unknown possibilities. When chatting with her, you need to prepare some emergency topics for cold scenes. It can be used to relieve embarrassment when an awkward conversation occurs, and it can also make girls feel your wit, stability, calmness and other advantages.
Chatting skills to make girls excited
1. Touch emotions
Emotions are It means that girls have experiences of joy, anger, sadness, joy, fear, etc. This experience isA reflection of a girl’s mood on chatting. Positive emotions can increase a girl's interest in chatting with you, making her like chatting with you. Therefore, chatting needs to touch girls' positive emotions [happiness, curiosity, trust, etc.].
2. Stimulate resonance
Share some precious and unforgettable life experiences, life experiences and feelings with girls, so as to evoke and stimulate the memories deep in girls’ hearts, allowing you and Girls inspire a resonant experience, and this similarity will make you fall in love with each other.
3. Recognize girls
It is human nature to seek approval from others, and a girl you have just met is no exception. When you discover her advantages and her personality from some details, Value, her precious qualities, agree/encourage/recognize her more, this will make the girl feel that you are her [Bo Le] and share more things with you.
