Question: Why did a girl who had a good chat with you suddenly stop replying to your messages? We are colleagues in the same company, but we are not in the same office. If I didn’t chat with her before, she would always come to me and tell me what she was doing. She also brought me food for free and said she missed me. Something like that. I want to ask what happened?
Why did the girl I had a good conversation with suddenly stop replying to messages?
Answer: According to your description, there may be the following reasons:
First, Over-revealing yourself
When you first meet a girl, you start to reveal everything within a few days. When chatting, you always reply as soon as she sends you something. This kind of behavior is exposing your needs. When a girl knows that you are a boy who is easily available, she will lose her desire to explore you. You must know that the higher the availability of a person, the lower her value. So when chasing girls, you really shouldn’t be in a hurry. Only by maintaining a sense of mystery appropriately can your attraction last longer.
Second, stepping into a girl’s minefield
If a girl is chatting well with you, but suddenly behaves abnormally, it is most likely because you have stepped into a girl’s minefield. For example, asking a girl some relatively private questions, or often teasing a girl and saying "No, you can't even do such a simple thing," or complaining about her friends or idols, etc., are all taboos. Boys with truly high emotional intelligence will always remember what can and cannot be done, so it is very important to chat and think with girls.
Third, girls get jealous and angry
If you flirt with other girls in the company If she sees it, or the girl hears gossip about you and other girls from others, or you say that you don't care much about her recently, in these cases, the girl may become jealous and angry. So she hopes to attract your attention by not replying to the message, and hopes that you can take the initiative to coax her. After coaxing and explaining clearly, you can return to the previous state.
Fourth, girls lose interest in you
A girl who likes you again, after taking the initiative with you for so long, sees that you have not taken any action to promote the relationship, or she feels that you If you don't like her that much, then she will slowly stop taking the initiative towards you and return to the status of a friend or colleague. If you don't want to give up in this situation, then show some sincerity and let the girl see that you care about her, and then she will resume her previous initiative towards you.
Finally, I hope that boys will advance their relationship when they are chatting well with girls. This is also the time when success is easiest. Don't start panicking when you find that a girl is cold to you and doesn't reply to messages, because by this time it may be too late.
