Whether we are chatting with a girl we just met or have been chasing for a while, we often encounter situations where the other party does not reply to messages.
In this situation, many boys don’t know what to do. They either suffer silently, or directly ask the girls, and then they are rejected by the girls.
To solve the problem of a girl not replying to messages, we must first understand what it means if she does not reply to messages, and then we can solve this problem in a targeted manner.
1. What does it mean when a girl doesn’t reply to messages
If a girl just doesn’t reply to you for a short period of time message, and he replied to you after a while, and also told you the reason why he did not reply in time. In this case, it means that the girl is really busy, so there is no need to worry about not replying to the message.
And if there is no reply after a relatively long period of time (such as more than 12 hours), you can basically be sure that you have seen it. If you haven’t replied after seeing it for a long time, the main reasons are as follows:
1. It took too long to see you and I no longer know how to reply to you
2. Pretending on purpose She is very busy and doesn’t reply to you. Although she uses this method, she actually wants you to pay attention to her
3. She doesn’t take you too seriously. In her heart, it doesn’t matter whether you are happy or angry or angry. It doesn't matter, in other words, even if you leave her and ignore her, it doesn't matter to her. Maybe it’s because you have always been too mild-tempered, maybe you are now in a state of spare tire and jack.
4. The question you posted is too sensitive, so people can’t reply.
No matter which of the above situations, in addition to the problems of girls, we can find that there are more problems within ourselves. problem, so if we want to solve the problem of girls not replying to messages, we need the following techniques.
2. Ways to deal with girls not replying to messages
1. Provide multiple topics for girls
p>If a girl doesn’t reply to messages because she doesn’t know how to reply to you, then you can provide multiple topics for the girl in the chat. Just like when the girl said you can cook, you can reply: "Now If a boy doesn't work hard to make money and is good at cooking, how can he satisfy the young ladies who have such high requirements for choosing a mate?"
One sentence contains multiple topics, one is that boys can make money and Gu Jia is a nice person who makes girls feel good about him and wants to ask the boy more things; the second is the discussion of the current concept of love and the requirements for choosing a spouse; the third is topics related to cooking and food.
In this way, you won’t have to worry about running out of topics to talk about. Girls can choose the topics they want to talk about according to their own preferences, so they won’tThere is a situation where a girl doesn’t know how to reply.
2. Provide guidance during the chat
If a girl doesn’t reply to messages because you are too polite to her, If you are too enthusiastic and make her feel bored, then it must be that the need is exposed too much in the early stage, which brings pressure to the girl. When the pressure is too great, she will subconsciously choose to refuse to escape the pressure.
You must know that rejection is habitual. Once a girl rejects you, she will become accustomed to rejecting you, so that some normal interactions will choose to refuse. We must avoid girls who reject us from the beginning. , for example, if you invite a girl out on a date and she doesn’t agree, she will still refuse if you ask her to do so next time. Even if you ask her to chat for a while, she will still refuse.
Rejection has inertia, and consent also has inertia. We can also use this consent inertia to guide girls to accept us. For example:
Male: There is a new restaurant nearby and it tastes good
Female: Really, where is it?
Male: In xxx Plaza, the new restaurant The ground pot chicken is particularly good
Female: Oh, last time I went to xx Plaza, I saw a lot of people queuing outside
Male: It tastes good. Are you greedy?
Female: Is it okay?
Male: I haven’t eaten meat for a long time and I’m a little greedy. I want to try it next time?
Female: Okay
Here is a step-by-step guide to guide girls to agree to our invitation, and raise a topic from the beginning to see if girls like to go. Chat, the girl behaves well and then push the topic to whether the girl likes it or not. The girl here will not explicitly say that she likes it out of reserve. At this time, we need to ask the girl on the basis that we want to eat. This is to tell you, yes I don’t want to eat it just to treat you. It doesn’t have such a clear purpose, so girls will be more willing to accept it.
Some people may say, what if a girl refuses to talk about this topic right away?
Since girls don’t like to talk, let’s not stay on this topic for too long. Time, change the topic in time, for example:
Male: There is a new restaurant nearby that tastes good
Female: Oh
Male: The impact of the recent epidemic has not changed You can only cook it at home if you don’t want to eat French.
Change the topic and talk to the girl about cooking and the epidemic, and see which topic the girl wants to talk about.
