If you want to chat with a girl, but most of the time when you talk to her, she will say that she is busy, which makes many boys wonder whether the girl is really busy, or whether she just doesn’t want to chat with him, and Use busy as an excuse to reject you. Let me analyze for you what does it mean when a girl keeps saying she is busy when chatting with her? What should I do?
1. What does it mean when a girl keeps saying she is busy when chatting with her?
1. When a girl says she is busy, it may mean that the chat between you is more "awkward". For example, if there are not many chat topics or if you ask a question for a long time and the other person replies for a long time, it will be very tiring for both of you to chat. In this case, the girl may say that she is busy to avoid awkward conversations. In this case, you should pay attention to the topic of chatting before looking for a girl next time.
2. If you had a very happy chat with the girl before, the girl will also respond to you in a timely manner. While we are chatting, she says she has something to do, but maybe she really has something to do, so you should understand her. Trying to increase understanding and shorten distance will be counterproductive. However, you can ask her what she is busy with and see if you can help within your ability. Be appropriate and understand her needs and acceptance level. Don't force her to do anything. Let’s talk until she’s not busy.
3. There is another situation where a girl is not busy at all. She just pretends to be busy and doesn’t want to pay attention to you. This is This can be noticed in daily chats, such as being slow to reply to messages in a timely manner, not replying to you until the next day, and you saying eight sentences and she replying to one sentence. Don't talk about this kind of thing. If you continue to talk, you will become a dog licker.
PS: If a girl really likes someone, no matter how busy she is, as long as the person she likes chats with her, she will try to reply as soon as possible. If she really doesn't have time to reply to the message, she will reply to him and tell him what she is doing. After a while, she will find him after she is busy, and she will be extremely excited. If a girl just replies "busy" to you and then disappears, you should probably understand the general meaning!
2. What to do when a girl says she is busy while chatting
1. Since you are busy, then I will also be busy. As the saying goes, men and women match each other, and they will not be tired from work, as long as they are busy together with you. No matter how hard or tiring it is, I will do it, and more people can do things faster.
2. No matter how busy you are, you still have to eat. If you want to be busy, I will find a hot pot that tastes super good. When you are done, we will eat together.
3. Give me your address. When you are done, the takeaway should arrive. Remember to eat to replenish energy after you are done, so don’t tire my baby.
4. You are busy first. When you are free, be sure to contact me as soon as possible. My mobile phone is always waiting for you to send me a message.
5. How can I help? Always ready to help you.
6. It feels like you are busy every day. Will living like this be tiring?
7. Well, that’s good. Let’s start working hard for our future now. Come on.
8. You can obviously rely on your appearance, but if you have to work hard like this, I have to learn from you.
Finally, I would like to remind you that if you keep saying that you are busy when chatting with a girl, don’t bother her all the time, because whether she is really busy or pretending to be busy, it means that she cannot chat with you for the time being, so respond appropriately. Just one sentence will do.
