Communication is something we all do, but communication is also divided into effective communication and ineffective communication. We can clearly see the difference between the two literally. Of course, in order to give everyone a better understanding What is ineffective communication? Today I will tell you what ineffective communication is!
Ineffective communication is a network A buzzword that refers to ineffective communication in life and no response.
Have you ever encountered a situation like this? You obviously want to talk about the problem, but the quarrel gets worse after each communication, causing the relationship between the two people to get worse?
In fact, this is because our communication is ineffective communication. Ineffective communication in relationships is often accompanied by attacks, accusations, and subjective judgments or comments.
This type of ineffective communication is not communication in the strict sense, but a quarrel wearing a "communication" mask.
So how can we avoid ineffective communication?
1. Cherish communication opportunities. Do not avoid conflicts, do not hide facts, do not indulge emotions, and do not hope that conflicts will disappear naturally.
2. Listen without commenting. Be aware of the other person's desire to talk and realize that not interrupting will benefit both parties.
3. Thank your partner for your sincerity and willingness to share. Respond positively to the other person (showing empathy through words, body language, and behavior) to show “real understanding.”
4. Care about the other person’s feelings and consider new suggestions. Happy couples see more than right and wrong in problems. They accept the existence of differences, especially differences in ideas, rather than attack each other.
5. Restrain stupid words and out-of-bounds behavior. Do not withdraw or isolate when communicating with the other party, and do not vent frustration or express displeasure (for example, slamming the door or using sarcastic remarks).
6. Pay attention to your language. Give up using phrases like "It's no use talking to you" or "Oh, forget it" and use "we" instead of "I" and "you" in conversations. Know which jokes are humorous and which are hurtful.
Here I would like to share some ways to improve intimacy in my personal opinion:
No matter how busy we are, we will always leave some time for each other. For example, reading together, chatting about topics we are both interested in, sharing with each other how we felt that day or newly acquired knowledge, or completing chores or housework at home together.
We will also enjoy our own lives. They are not completely dependent on each other, but have independent personalities and each have their own careers.
