Although blind dates are easier to succeed than other ways to get out of singles, if you don’t know how to chat after the blind date and always talk to death, the blind date will easily fail. So how can you chat with your blind date to win her over? Are you interested?
1. Interesting chat atmosphere and establishment of rapport
There are many brothers I feel that when chatting with a girl, I should talk about what she likes. I think that only by saying that the girl likes to talk can we start a conversation. I will prepare a lot of topics that the girl likes in advance, but in the end, the conversation still feels very stiff and cannot be continued.
In fact, when chatting with girls, the topic only serves as a starter. If you want girls to like chatting with you, you need to create an interesting chat atmosphere, interact with girls, and build a sense of rapport.
As mentioned above, girls are emotional creatures. If the chat is always asking and answering, such a dull chat The girl doesn’t like it because her mood doesn’t show any fluctuations, so you must arouse the girl’s mood during the chat, for example:
Male: Hi
Female: Hello
Male: There are many dogs in your circle of friends, thank you for your hard work as a shit shovel
Female: Haha
Male: Look at how fat your dogs are. I definitely eat a lot of food in my usual life
Female: Yes, in addition to eating, it can also be used for cooking. It chewed my shoes into a mess
Male: I heard that dogs often want something because they like it. , to show the depth of my love for you
After simply saying hello to the girl, start chatting with the girl around the topic of pet dogs in the girl’s circle of friends. Or is that topic just a starter? It’s important. It is better to interact with girls. Here, "shovel officer" and "deep love" are used to activate the chat atmosphere, just like chatting with friends, so that a harmonious chat atmosphere is established.
2. A natural invitation partner
Blind date, in a certain sense, is a good choice for those who are in love and get married. The purpose should be more urgent, so when you feel like chatting with a girl, you can invite the girl out.
Of course, I don’t want you to date a girl directly. That would be too purposeful. If a girl feels that you are anxious to date her and that you have premeditated motives for dating her, she will definitely not do it. Will agree, and before clearly understanding the girl's mind, the act of rashly inviting the girl will reveal the need for the girl. In this relationship, you will fall into a passive situation and can only be screened and selected by the girl, losing the initiative.
Therefore, when inviting girls, you must be natural and not have a strong purpose. Here you can chat with girls while they are having fun.The relationship is very high, especially when we talk about some common topics and feel that the atmosphere between both parties is relatively high, you can throw out an invitation, such as:
Male: I didn’t expect you and your dog to have so many interesting things< /p>
Female: Oh, what a bitter tear
Male: Haha, chatting with you is so fun, I haven’t been this happy for a long time
Female: Me I think so too
Male: I heard that there is a new night market in xx Square nearby. It looks good. Let’s go and check it out
Female: Let’s wait until we have time
Male: Every time I hear this sentence, I feel like there is nothing more to say
Female: Nope
Here, we can achieve emotional resonance by talking about common topics with girls. Then, on this basis, invite girls. Such an invitation will not appear abrupt. Of course, girls may refuse, and many brothers may give up at this time. In fact, as long as we tease the other party a little and lead the other party, we can definitely invite the girl out. .
