A good-looking person can indeed gain a lot of points when chasing a girl, but not everyone can have a handsome appearance, and being good-looking is not the only condition for chasing a girl. After all, good-looking people are all the same, and interesting The soul is one in a million. So, instead of worrying about how to be handsome, think about how to be interesting. Next, I will teach you a set of humorous chat skills to chase girls.
1. Don’t play by common sense
Don’t play by common sense and take advantage of girls Inertial thinking, then reverse reasoning, and avoidance based on the reverse reasoning results, creating an unexpected effect for girls.
For example, when a girl asks: "Do you like me?"
Let's infer that when a girl asks this, she probably has sufficient confidence (evidence) that we just like her. So when a girl guesses, we will definitely have the following behaviors:
1. Her thoughts are guessed, and then she becomes nervous and embarrassed, and then she can suppress us as much as she wants.
2. Refusing to admit it, hemming and hawing, and then being despised by the girl, losing value in her heart.
3. Take the opportunity to bravely confess your love, and then be controlled by the girl.
So under normal circumstances, it is easy for boys to fall into the trap of girls and end up with an undesirable ending.
But if we don’t play our cards according to common sense, the result will be different. For example, you can answer: "No, you guessed wrong, I actually hate you very much!" (emoticon package, at this time it must be paired with a Kim Curator-style emoticon package to achieve a humorous effect, otherwise girls will misunderstand You really hate her, so take it off. So please don’t hide any emoticons you have!)
At this time, the girl will definitely have a black question mark face: What, why doesn’t this guy act according to the routine? Damn, director, you gave us the wrong script!
We did not follow the routine, which not only showed the advantages of humor, but also avoided the possibility of falling into a passive position. And the girl may not be malicious (she really just wants to ask you if you like her), so this kind of humorous effect can be well preserved.
2. Misinterpretation
Misinterpretation is one of the core techniques of humorous chatting. Interpret the girl's words from other angles, or deliberately misunderstand the girl's meaning, motivating the girl to play with us, tease us, and sometimes even let the girl go along with the situation.
Therefore, it can often push the topic to a higher level, make the boring chat atmosphere lively, and make the originally lively atmosphere more lively.
For example:
When a girl asks you where your home is, you can pretend to misunderstand her: "This isDo you want to meet your parents soon?"
When a girl asks you how old you are, you can give a dirty answer: "How can I tell you such a secret thing?"
Girls If you are an experienced driver, you will understand in an instant, and then discuss with you the issue of size.
In short, through misinterpretation, we not only successfully attract girls to laugh and play together, but also create a feeling of girls being together. The image of actively attacking you
Then as long as a girl has a real liking for you and is infected by the atmosphere you create, her subconscious will create hints for herself and make her feel as if she is really pursuing you. Just like you, over time, this girl will become more and more proactive and bold in front of you
3. Be a little dirty.
For example, on your first date, a girl asked you "How old are you?" and you replied, "Brother, I am very old, hahaha."
At this time, girls can only leave a very perverted and vulgar image of you, which is very disadvantageous. It’s not impossible for us to joke, but we must grasp two principles. One is that you should be serious when you have just met and are not familiar with each other; After getting familiar with it, grasp the scale.
1. When you first start practicing humor, you should start with yourself.
There are two reasons. First, it is safest to use humor from yourself. , will not make enemies. Second, humor is an external manifestation of strong self-confidence. Only truly strong people will know how to laugh at themselves.
2. Don’t deliberately be humorous, just let nature take its course.
Most of the humor is based on the locale and language background, and cannot be applied mechanically, otherwise it will be counterproductive. For example, we watched a cross talk and thought the plot was very classic and interesting, and then we tried to use it when chatting with girls. It’s a humorous language topic, but if you force this paragraph into it, the girls will be embarrassed. On the one hand, they don’t understand, and on the other hand, they don’t know whether they should laugh.
At the end, I will give you a few more. A relatively common and safe humorous language topic, which can be used as a reference for people who are just starting to practice humor.
(1) Appearance:
"I think your shrill voice is very feminine."
“Are you targeting me like this to attract my attention?”
“I think you are so fat”
“No, I In fact, if you have abdominal muscles, you can touch and see. I practiced eight-pack abs as fast as nine times, and then they became one."
"I think you are so ugly" (this is considered Push away + waste test)
"That's why I came to date you"
(2) Personality
"I think you have a bad temper"< /p>
“Maybe I was reincarnated as Mount Tai?”
Using theseWhen discussing the topic, be sure to remember that humor, like emotional intelligence, requires practice to improve. If you don't know how to be humorous, forcing humor will only be regarded as a joke by girls.
