If you have just met a woman, you can pay more attention to her work and physical condition, pick out the things that interest her, and ask her more questions. This will shorten the distance between you and make it more convenient when you have common topics.
How to find topics for chatting with a girl you just met on WeChat?
Many people overlook one thing, that is, the steps to fall in love with a girl should be to be friends first and then lovers.
Therefore, many boys chatting with girls they have just met are too purposeful, which leads to misunderstandings from the beginning. If you leave a bad first impression on a girl, it will naturally be difficult to have subsequent conversations.
For example, the first few sentences are all about the girl’s appearance and figure. This way of opening your mouth will actually embarrass girls, make them think you are hypocritical or greasy, and unconsciously devalue you in your heart.
There are also some boys who like to use the routines found on the Internet to start with girls, but this does not stop girls from not following the routines. Moreover, this well-designed opening statement lets a girl know at a glance that you are spending time chatting with her. The obvious exposure of your needs is equivalent to raising the threshold for approaching her.
In the early stages of acquaintance, most girls will be very defensive against the opposite sex, so the most important thing at this time is not to express love, but to gain the girl's trust and hide their feelings and needs. In other words, if you want to chat with girls smoothly, your opening remarks must be natural.
In addition, the follow-up chat method should avoid a question-and-answer style. Only by continuously extending the topic can the other party's interest be aroused. If you don’t know what to do or have other emotional problems, you can send me a private message to answer your questions~
