When chatting with a girl you like, you sometimes encounter the embarrassing situation of not being able to find a topic. What should we do at this time? Here are some solutions for you.
1. Ask about the other person’s hobbies
When you are chatting with a girl, you can take the initiative to ask her about her daily life What do you like to do, or is there anything you are particularly interested in? This will allow you to get to know her better and find some common topics.
2. Talk about what happened recently
If you both live in the same city, you can talk about what happened recently, such as which restaurant has opened or which attraction. It’s been popular recently and so on. This can not only increase mutual understanding, but also find common topics.
3. Talk about movies, music and other literary and artistic works
If you know that a girl likes watching movies or listening to music, you can talk to her about the movies she has recently watched or listened to song. This way you can not only show off your own literary and artistic flair, but also find common interests.
4. Talk about future plans
If you have been together for a while, you can talk about future plans, such as where you want to travel, what skills you want to learn, etc. This will allow you to better understand her life plans and find common topics.
5. Tease each other appropriately
If you already have a certain tacit understanding between you, you can tease each other appropriately. But be careful not to go too far, otherwise it will make girls feel uncomfortable.
When chatting with a girl you like, it is normal to not be able to find a topic. But as long as you think hard, you will definitely be able to find a suitable topic. Remember to respect each other, don't forcefully guide the topic, and maintain a natural and smooth communication method. I believe you will become closer and closer.
