Girls are naturally wary of strangers, so many boys often find that the other party is either perfunctory or cold when they first chat with a girl. So how can you make her trust you when you first chat with a girl? ?
How to make a girl trust you when chatting with her from the beginning?
1. Have a sense of humor
No girl will hate a man with a sense of humor, so let a man The first step for a girl to trust you is to learn to be humorous. Many men may say that they are born without a sense of humor. In fact, a sense of humor can be cultivated. Pay attention to everything in life and practice more, and you will be inspired. For example, our common humor routine is to tease girls.
2. Detailed resonance
If you want to build a sense of trust with girls at the beginning of a chat, in addition to humor, you must also learn to pay attention to details and find resonance. For example, girls like to post photos in Moments, and then you can start the chat by commenting on the photos. For example, you can say, looking at so many photos taken in your Moments, I found that you quite like to take pictures of landscapes. . Then you can simply tell the girl that you also like taking landscape photos, then she will think, hey, you are quite attentive and understand me quite well, then the girl will open up to you because of some common points. Chatterbox.
3. Talk about more popular topics
First find some of the most popular topics such as real-time news. Boys generally like to talk about cars, games, and sports, while girls prefer to talk about shopping, web dramas, and gossip. Don't be too restrained in your attitude, and don't be too presumptuous. If you are communicating online, don't send frequent messages, so as not to disturb the other party and make you lose your temper. The main thing at this stage is that you can have something to talk about, and you can continue the chat. Of course, don't make it endless. Seize the time, or end the topic proactively if the other party gives you a hint. You can't eat all the good things at once.
4. Chat about some of the other person’s preferences
Then after chatting for a while, you may be able to grasp some of the other person’s preferences. , the scope of the chat will naturally be narrowed. Only by truly understanding can you talk to a high level (without investigation and research, you will have no right to speak). Otherwise, if you talk in general, tout or belittle indiscriminately, it will easily arouse the other party's dislike. This stage is about enhancing mutual understanding, which is more likely to cause changes in the attitudes of both parties. You may not like the other person less after getting to know the other person, or you may like him more. Similarly, the other party may have some feelings for you after communicating with you for a period of time. Like or dislike. This stage is very important. If you can’t arouse a good impression, at least don’t make the other person hate you. Over time, you will naturally win the other person’s trust.
