Cold reading can help us understand each other when we first get acquainted with girls and increase interaction in chat. I believe many people have heard of it. So how to use cold reading?
1. Usage scenarios in WeChat chat
For example:
When When you chat with a girl and the girl mentioned in the above article says "I went out to play today" and you learn this information but you don't know how to chat to shorten the distance between you, then you can use cold reading. Chat mode.
Detailed explanation of skills:
The girl said: "I went out to play today"
You said: "Aren't you very happy~" (cold reading basis , girls are willing to tell you when they go out to play. Generally speaking, they are very happy and may want to share it with you)
The girl replied: "That is a must."
You said: " Well, I feel like you are a girl with a lively and outgoing personality, but do girls like this also need a sense of security inside?"
The girl replied: "Well, in fact, most girls inside They all need a sense of security."
You said: "What do you think is a sense of security?" (This sentence is not a cold reading, but to continue the topic. Girls may share themselves with you. For the concept of security, so you can learn more about this girl)
We can find that the second sentence of the cold reading reply actually has the same beginning as the above content to guess the girl’s personality. This will A girl will feel that you understand her better than other men to a certain extent. But the difference is that some content is added at the end of the reply sentence, which not only makes the chat more cold-reading, but also makes it easy for girls to pick up the conversation.
Maybe you have discovered one thing, that is, cold reading must use declarative sentences. Moreover, cold reading is a guess. Since it is a guess, it will be inaccurate. But that doesn’t mean cold reading is a failure.
Cold reading does not allow you to completely guess the other party’s information, but it allows the other party to open up and proactively give you more information. Of course you can't just make random guesses. Instead, you use the other party's clothing, conversation, topic content, and other information to make your guess more accurate.
2. Usage scenarios in dating interaction
For example:
You are walking on the road with a girl. If you feel that there is some distance between you and the girl, Then it means that she has not completely let down her guard against you, and the atmosphere of the date is not right. Then at this time, you can also do cold reading to determine what you should do.
Detailed explanation of techniques:
Use it directly as an interactive opening. You can find an opportunity for you to interact., asked girls: "I plan to keep a pet recently. If it were you, what would you choose as a pet?"
Girls are generally interested in pets and have a certain understanding of them, so they treat it as a break. The opening of the atmosphere is better.
Girls may say: "Well, of course I will choose a puppy~haha"
You Then ask her: "Oh, puppy, why did you choose a puppy?"
She might say: "Well, because puppies are cute, loyal, silly, and likeable. "Like a baby"
Of course, the reasons for each girl's reply may be different, but it is not important. What is important is that you can simply understand the reason why she likes it from such messages.
The relationship between pets and people is very close. What kind of pets you like can actually tell you what type of girl a girl is and what her emotional needs are.
It can be seen from this conversation that this girl actually expects others to think she is cute. What she needs in relationships is loyalty and single-mindedness.
So now you know how to interact with such a girl. Maybe you can find an opportunity to interact and praise her, "You are so cute." Her face will be so red because of you. It hits the mark where she needs and desires recognition most.
