When flirting with girls, some boys always fall into the state of "awkward chatting" unknowingly. It's like a curse. As long as they chat with girls, awkward chatting will happen. The essence is still lacking. Chat topics!
If men want to change the status quo, they must remember some "topics" that are easy to generate continuous communication, and understand girls' chat thinking, so that they can chat with girls without being awkward. Chat!
Topics for chatting with girls
1. Elementary topics (just met girls)</ h3>
When you have known a girl for a short time, the topics you can talk about are actually limited. If the guy is too impatient to break the "limitations", it will easily lead to a cold moment and embarrassment. For example, if you chat for the first time, Question - Are you a virgin? What are your measurements? What size bra?
Therefore, for primary topics, you should talk about yourself first and then ask the other person, to eliminate girls’ defensive psychology and accumulate trust!
< p style="text-align: center;">Examples of recommended topics for beginners:
1. Hello, I am (who looked a little handsome on the blind date that day) ( Wang Dachui). [Status + name]
2. I just finished eating/just finished the project in San Diego, USA/just became the king. What about you? [Share status, ask girls about status]
< p> 3. I haven’t eaten either, do you have any recommendations? [Don’t judge the girl’s status, but continue the topic from her status]4. I usually like to eat (steamed cucumbers) and (hot kidney flower), it seems that today is going to change the taste! I remember... [Talk from status to dishes, and then from dishes to memories]
5. Today’s weather really makes people feel I'm in a good mood/It was already snowing at this time last year. [From the weather to mood and the past]
6. The U.S. election is just a theater performance by two bad old men~ [From current hot topics/recent events to personal opinions]
7. I’m going for a run on the weekend/I’m going to prepare for a trip next month. [Talk to girls about plans, arrangements, and the future]
2. Advanced topics (the relationship with girls has improved)
After the relationship with a girl has improved, it is a critical period to get closer to the girl. Chatting during this period requires certain hard-to-get skills. (The number of chats is high and low, and emotions are conveyed during chatting. The purpose is to close the distance + self-presentation)
At this stage, awkward chats usually do not occur because you already have a good understanding of the girl. And communication, the possibility of awkward chatting is relatively low. Even if there is awkward chatting, you can still talk about it at will.
Examples of advanced topic recommendations:
1. Childhood [Show "outstanding" intelligence, talents, ideas, experiences, and family background, and choose the one you are most confident about among them as the topic Points]
2. When you were a student [passed 0 points in the math test, participated in the national physics competition, served as the president of the student union, organized the Youth Volunteer Association... Put some things that can show your strengths, characteristics, and attractions Tell girls about your experiences]
3. Short-term goals [certificate exams, grade exams, traveling abroad, promotion and salary increase, becoming CEO, marrying Bai Fumei... Tell her some of your short-term goals to let her know better Your recent status, realize that you are a motivated boy, and you can derive new topics]
4. Interests and hobbies [You can even develop a new interest in order to chat with girls Hobbies or girls’ hobbies, and then communicate with girls]
