Generally speaking, when a girl talks to you in a perfunctory way, she will respond with short words such as um, oh, oh, etc. to whatever you say. When you send her a message, she either responds very late or doesn't reply to you at all. She didn't even pay attention to what you said to her, and soon forgot about it... So the question is, if you find that a girl is perfunctory in chatting with you, how do you counterattack?
1. Enrich yourself more
If you find that a girl is perfunctory in chatting with you, then you can bombard her with WeChat messages and ask her why she doesn’t reply to you and why she is perfunctory to you. It's useless, it will only make girls hate you more and more. You might as well enrich yourself. Only when you become good enough, girls will change their eyes to look at you, and maybe more girls will offer you olive branches by then, and you will have more choices. . So when girls are perfunctory with you, you might as well spend more time on yourself to enrich yourself, learn more specialties or some work skills, so that when your life becomes more colorful and better, those girls Naturally, I will regret my perfunctory treatment of you at that time and pursue you instead.
2. Be cool and whet your appetite
Sometimes if boys chat too frequently, the topics they talk about If it's boring, girls may be a little annoyed, so they'll chat with you. At this time, the boy might as well be a little indifferent to whet her appetite, but staying away properly does not mean that he will never contact her again. He should contact her occasionally to let her know that you still care about her, but you don't care about her. If you are as close as before, then she will feel the change in you and will be curious about why. You can show her your excellent side again, so that the girl will naturally become interested in you, and then take the initiative to contact you. However, boys must not get carried away when a girl takes the initiative. Maintaining a cold feeling will actually attract girls more.
3. Play hard to get and attract attention
Many times boys will act very eagerly if they pursue a girl. , which makes a girl feel breathless, and she will naturally avoid you unconsciously and talk to you in a perfunctory way. At this time, boys might as well use a hard-to-get approach to get her attention. How to do it specifically? You can stop looking for her for a period of time, then she will suddenly feel that something is missing. A boy who has been pursuing her suddenly no longer has close contact with her, and she will naturally be curious about what happened. You can also show more of your popular side with girls in your circle of friends. This will cause girls to feel a sense of crisis and in turn want to associate with you again.
If you find that girls are perfunctory when chatting with you, it means that there is something wrong with the way you chatted with girls before.Only if you ask the question, girls will deal with you. At this time, boys need to reflect more on their own problems and see what makes girls dislike you. Of course, if a girl always shows an attitude of not wanting to see you, it may be that she doesn't like you. In this case, it depends on whether you can change the girl's opinion of you.
