Some girls have a sense of superiority because they have too many suitors around them. They feel that none of these boys are good enough for them, so they treat everyone in a perfunctory manner. Faced with this situation, how to change it? What about her attitude?
If you want to change her attitude, the best way is to reply to her with a strong attitude. You cannot coddle her, otherwise she will not communicate with you as an equal.
1. When she is perfunctory with you
1. "Can you still be happy if you are so perfunctory?" Let’s chat.”
First tell your true inner feelings directly, and then express your dissatisfaction in the form of a joke. If this girl still has some emotional intelligence, she will realize that her attitude is a bit too much. And your humorous way of replying also makes her think that you are a man with high emotional intelligence, and she has a slight affection for you. Then, through some chatting skills, she will become more and more fond of you, and her attitude towards you will naturally change from indifference to enthusiasm.
2. "Are you thirsty and want to drink water?"
When a girl replies "hehe" to you, it means that she has a very dull feeling towards you, unless your reply is, It can give her a novel feeling, otherwise she will keep perfunctory with you. Deliberately misinterpreting her meaning will make her eyes shine and she will feel that you are not the kind of man who only knows how to please her, and her attitude towards you will become a little better.
3. "I hate it when people say haha"
Some girls like to reply "haha" and It's not that she's being perfunctory with you, she just thinks it means she's happy. In this case, you can tell her directly that you don't like such a reply, and she will be happy to change it. After all, her original intention is not to perfuse you.
2. When girls often use oh to deal with you
1. “It’s easy to lose me with your attitude.”
A girl’s attitude towards you is very perfunctory. It means that she doesn't like you very much, and your relationship is actually the same as that of strangers. The difference is that you can chat with her now. If you get angry because she replies "oh" to you, or seems disappointed, she will have no desire to continue talking to you.
At this time, you can reply in a humorous way to make the girl think that you are an interesting person, so that she will be willing to continue chatting with you, and you can make her like you through chatting, and then have a good relationship with you. Chance can catch up with her.
2. "Look, you are chatting to death again"
The girl's reply makes you feel If you feel uncomfortable, you have to learn to speak out bravely. Even if there is a risk of offending a girl, it is better than keeping it in your heart. After all, feelings are not a person'sNo matter how hard you deal with things alone, it will never come to an end, so you have to correct your attitude and make the girl feel that you are chatting on an equal footing, so that she will be interested in you.
