No matter how commonly used WeChat is now, calling a girl to get closer is better than chatting on WeChat. However, when most boys call girls, they often don’t know what to talk about because they are nervous. Let me teach you how to find topics to chat with girls on the phone.
1. Don’t enter the topic directly
Making a phone call is different from typing on WeChat. Many boys will go directly to the topic when calling girls and ask three fatal questions: What are you doing? What are you doing? Where are you?
Speaking of this, some brothers may be curious. Don’t they all call? Where are these three sentences that kill me?
Maybe you have no problem calling your friends, but when you call the girl you like, you will directly send These three questions, these three questions will come up:
Expose your low value
When you call a girl, you will ask these three fatal questions, Then you become a low-value demander. Just like when we saw a toy we liked when we were young, we would pester our parents to please them and ask them to buy it for us, but our parents may not agree. However, if you have good academic performance, your parents may take the initiative to ask you if you want to buy it. This is actually the embodiment of value.
Similarly, calling a girl and asking her what she is doing actually exposes your need for the girl, which is a pleasant expression, reveals your low value, and will not be ignored by the girl. favor.
Expose your shortcomings
Many people call girls without purpose. Basically, you can say whatever you think at the moment. This kind of chat is actually difficult to control. You can't guess the girl's thoughts and you can't communicate well with the girl. Asking the girl where she is and wanting to know the girl's information is also exposed. Your lack of confidence and immaturity.
Easily embarrassed
When you ask a girl what she is doing, you have given the girl the right to speak. Of course it's fine for a girl to tell you what she's doing, but a girl saying she's bored and not doing anything is good. How should you respond? I think a lot of people don't know how to respond.
And the chat started to take the initiative to ask girls what they do. You won't get any valuable information from this kind of chat, and the call is pointless.
In fact, the above-mentioned fatal three-way connection is a bad topic request, hoping to open the topic through girls, but in the early stages of getting along with men and women, boys take the initiative to open the topic, take the dominant position, and build attraction.
2. What should you pay attention to when calling a girl?
Find the right reasonBy
You must find a reason to call a girl, because calling the other party aimlessly can easily put you in a passive state, so a suitable reason for calling a girl can allow you to take the initiative in chatting. rights, better communication. If you can't find a suitable reason, you can start with small things around you, such as:
1) Some small problems in life, how to cut potatoes quickly.
2) How to use some office software, or what are the shortcut keys.
3) Do you have any good skin care products to recommend?
Simplify the chat content.
The reason for chatting with girls on the phone is that many people like to explain the topic in details and explain one thing in a long way, but they often get stuck in it because there are too many details, or they are incoherent because they talk about too many things.
The correct approach is to summarize it concisely so that girls can understand what you mean. If the girl is in good condition, you can use a vague invitation to check the girl's attitude towards you.
Get to the point as quickly as possible.
As we said before, you cannot go directly to the topic when talking to a girl on the phone. Another thing to note is that we should not be as good as the topic, but should get to the topic as soon as possible.
So in the process of calling a girl, after a simple greeting, if you want to ask a girl out, don’t make too many preparations, because this will make the girl feel that you are making a temporary decision. Lack of sincerity. Of course, it’s best not to invite a girl directly when you call her for the first time. This will reveal your neediness and is impolite.
If you want to attract girls, don’t always ask, don’t always ask girls, get to the point as soon as possible.
