Chatting with girls will not extend the topic, and it is easy to become silent. If chatting frequently ends in silence, how can you upgrade your relationship with girls? Here I will teach you how to extend the topic wirelessly when chatting with girls.
1. Interpret the message
When everyone goes to chat with a girl, they only think about getting her back. But I never thought about what the girl's words meant. You must know that girls express different meanings in different situations.
For example:
When you keep pestering her, she says to you: "You are so annoying."
When you were flirting, she said to you: "You are so annoying."
Let’s look at this in a different situation, where a girl says the same thing to you. But their meanings are different. So before we proceed, we must first correctly interpret what the girl means.
If the interpretation is wrong, the chat will not start. If you misinterpret the information or start the topic without interpreting the girl's information at all, then the girl will often not reply to you at this time.
So before replying to the girl, we must first truly understand what the girl means by this sentence.
2. Grasp the direction of the topic
According to the meaning expressed by the girl, bring the chat topic to what we want Place to go.
In this way, we can lead the topic and the chat will not be chatted to death. Many students don’t know how to control the direction of the chat. Being led by a girl can easily lead the topic to a dead end.
For example:
Female: I like to go to the beach the most. The feeling of the sea breeze blowing on my face is simply wonderful. (Seaside, feeling)
Male: When I was a child, I often went to the beach to play, catching crabs on the beach and putting them in my friends’ clothes. She was so frightened that she went to report it to my mother. (I gave the girls multiple topic points here so that they can easily pick up the next sentence. At the same time, I also guided the girls to exchange information. The key words here are: When I was a child
Feelings of catching crabs at the beach)
Female: I didn’t expect you to be so bad when you were a child. Your mother must be very angry with you. (When I was a child, I was bad and my mother was angry)
Male: That’s not bad, just a little naughty. If I put a little crab under your clothes, will you cry? (Change the topic to girls and insert interactivity in the middle)
Female: I don’t know how...
When we achieve this step, we can prevent The girl leads the conversation, leading the chat to a dead end.
3. Keyword expansion
Will interpret girls’ informationAfter being able to grasp the topic direction, what we need to do next is to expand the keywords horizontally or vertically.
Horizontal expansion:
It refers to an interaction through keywords. Here I call it horizontal expansion.
For example: I like to go to the beach the most. The feeling of the sea breeze blowing on my face is simply wonderful.
The words "seaside, sea breeze, and feeling" in this sentence are all keywords. We can use these keywords to start a conversation.
Seaside:
I went to the seaside of Gulangyu Island in Xiamen last summer. The water looked blue and beautiful.
Sea breeze blowing on your face:
Do you like the feeling of a slight sea breeze, or the feeling of strong wind blowing your hair messy?
Feeling:
Standing by the sea, there is a feeling of relaxation that makes you forget all your troubles.
Vertical expansion:
Go deep into the content and describe it in detail.
I like to go to the beach the most. The feeling of the sea breeze blowing on my face is simply wonderful.
This is an in-depth expansion of keywords. Make the other person feel something very detailed.
The most important thing when chasing a girl is not being able to chat, but understanding her. When chatting, boys must not just talk about themselves. It is best to start the topic around what girls say. No matter what a girl says, don't rush to deny her. What girls need is understanding, not solutions.