Recently, while chatting with a few university classmates about the amusing anecdotes of campus romance, I stumbled upon a very interesting phenomenon: when a girl says she's "tired," there are often many subtle hints hidden within. As someone who has been through it, I want to share some insights on this topic today.
I remember during my university days, there was a particularly interesting guy in our dorm. Every time he chatted with the girl he liked, and she said she was "tired," he would naively reply with a "good night," then toss and turn with his phone in hand. Later, we realized that when a girl says she's "tired," it could mean many things: she might genuinely be tired, she might want to end the conversation, or she might be testing to see if you would try to keep her engaged.
Speaking of university romance, I find it most fascinating because it truly doesn't require much material foundation. Like when I was pursuing my girlfriend, the most extravagant date we had was eating a stir-fry at the second floor of the cafeteria, followed by studying together in the library. Reflecting on it now, that kind of simple joy is truly precious. As one netizen said, "The most beautiful part of university romance is that two people can grow together." I completely agree with this statement.
However, pursuing a girl does require some skill. For instance, when a girl says she"s "tired," you might try saying, "Let's count sheep together and see who falls asleep first," or "If you're tired, rest early, and I'll bring you breakfast tomorrow." This approach doesn't come off as too clingy but still lets her feel your care.
When it comes to choosing whom to pursue, I believe that introverted girls are indeed easier to approach. They are often more willing to listen and are more easily moved by sincerity. But that doesn't mean extroverted girls are unattainable; it just requires more patience and skill. Like a friend of mine who pursued the most lively girl in the department, his success was due to persistence and sincerity.
Finally, I want to emphasize that while university romance is beautiful, one should not forget to improve oneself. As mentioned in the article, ambitious men often have more charm. A senior I knew kept writing throughout his university years. Although no one understood him at the time, after graduation, he really landed a good job and also found love through this.
So, when a girl says she"s "tired," instead of agonizing over whether to continue the conversation, think about how to better yourself. After all, the best state of a relationship is when both individuals can mutually achieve and grow together.
