When meeting a girl he likes, boys usually choose to take the initiative to start contacting each other, such as adding a WeChat account first, so that the two of them can chat or something. However, in this case, some inexperienced boys often encounter - girls Chatting with you hot and cold, you ask her to chat, but she doesn’t reply but responds selectively. This kind of hot and cold attitude and behavior of girls is really confusing!
What does it mean when a girl is hot and cold when chatting with you?
It is a very vague meaning when a girl is hot and cold when chatting with you. Attitude - It can be understood that girls are too introverted and don't know how to express their feelings; it can also be understood that girls just want to hang you and use your love for her to treat you as a tool.
Generally speaking, women are good at pretending, and it is difficult for you to judge from the beginning what kind of mentality she has when chatting with you hot or cold.
However, we can make a rough analysis based on the hot and cold attitude of girls when chatting:
1. She doesn’t want to not reply to your WeChat message out of politeness;
2. She is willing to chat with you, which shows that you have the opportunity to pursue her;
3. She currently does not want (is unwilling/dare not...) to progress too quickly with you;
4. Your chat topic did not arouse her interest;
5. You don’t know how to chat with girls;
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How to find the hot and cold topics when girls chat is hot and cold
The hot and cold times in girls’ chat may also be caused by your inability to chat, so “If you want to flirt with girls, chat.” You have to learn first." If you are always unable to continue chatting with girls and always have awkward conversations, it is definitely not conducive to chasing girls!
If the reason why girls are hot and cold when chatting with you is Since you don't know how to chat, the girl just wants to pick up the conversation with you but can't, and that's why you'll be hot and cold.
How to find the breaking point of the topic when chatting with girls:
1. First understand the girl’s personality, hobbies, Habits, lifestyle, temper and other important information;
2. For example, you can talk to a girl about interpersonal communication based on her personality, talk about your personality, talk about how you get along with friends, and how to contact strangers;
3. For example, you can find someone you are more interested in chatting with based on a girl’s hobbies. If it is a common hobby, even better, then you can also have a good reason for the next date;
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4. Through keyword expansion, you can extend the topic infinitely, such as "It's so cold today". You can talk to girls about your favorite season, what you like to do in your favorite season, and memories of a certain time.The feeling brought about by this memory, how you behave when you have a certain feeling...
The most important thing when chatting with a girl to find a hot topic is to understand the girl and her interest in chatting. What’s the point? If you keep talking about things that are boring to girls, no matter how energetic you talk, she will only respond to you with one or two sentences that are hot and cold!
