In the early stage of getting to know someone on a blind date, establishing common topics is an important step in enhancing feelings. It can be carried out from the following aspects:
1. Ask about the other person’s interests and hobbies: Understand the other person’s interests and hobbies, and you can find common ground, so as to Generate more interesting topics.
2. Talk about recent movies, music, or books: Share your favorite movies, music, or books, and ask the other person if they have similar preferences.
3. Talk about travel experiences: share the places you have been to and hear if the other person has any dream travel destinations.
Step 2: Listen and care
During the chat process, you must not only express your own opinions and experiences, but also listen to the other party and show care.
1. Pay attention to details: remember what the other party mentioned Important matters, such as family, friends, work, etc., and mention them appropriately in future chats.
2. Ask and respond: Express your concern for the other person’s life and feelings by asking questions, and demonstrate your understanding and resonance when answering.
3. Avoid interruptions: Try to avoid interruptions when the other party is speaking, and give enough time and space to express your thoughts.
Step 3: Relaxed humor
During the chat process, the appropriate use of humor can relieve tension and enhance feelings.
1. Tell jokes or anecdotes: Share some funny jokes or personal anecdotes to make the other person laugh.
2. Make fun of yourself: Make fun of yourself moderately and show a self-deprecating sense of humor, but be careful not to be too self-deprecating.
3. Respond to the other person’s humor: If the other person says something humorous, respond promptly and show your understanding.
Step 4: Tender care
During the chat, showing a gentle and caring side can make the other party feel your sincerity and consideration. .
1. Greetings and blessings: Greet the other party and send blessings at the appropriate time, such as morning greetings and evening wishes.
2. Care about the other person’s emotions: Ask about the other person’s recent emotions and feelings, and provide encouragement and support.
3. Take good care of the other person: If the other person has any troubles or needs help, try your best to provide help and support.
Through the above steps, you can enhance your relationship while chatting with the girl you just met on a blind date. Remember to be genuine, caring and respectful, listen carefully and bring out your strengths and sense of humor. At the same time, you should also pay attention to keeping a moderate distance and not being too rash or invading the other person's personal space. Have a nice chat!
