Sometimes, we may find ourselves unable to find a common topic when chatting with girls. This may be because we don’t understand their interests or hobbies, or we haven’t found the right way to arouse their interest. Here are some ways to help you find common topics of conversation with girls.
Observe their interests and hobbies:
strong>Before talking to girls, observe what they usually like to do. For example, whether they like reading, watching movies, playing sports or traveling. By understanding their interests and hobbies, you can more easily find common ground.Ask questions: If you don’t know anything about a girl’s interests and hobbies, just ask them directly. Most people are happy to share their interests and feel seen and valued. You can ask them what movies they've seen, books they've read, or events they've attended recently.
Shared experiences: If you and a girl have a shared experience, that would be a great topic to talk about. For example, you might have gone to the same school, participated in the same activities, or traveled to similar places. By recalling and sharing these experiences, you can build a deeper connection.
Follow current events:Understanding some current hot topics and news events can help you find topics to discuss with girls. You can ask them what they think about a news event or share your own opinion. However, be careful when discussing sensitive topics to ensure they don't spark controversy.
Show your interests and hobbies: If you have some special interests and hobbies, you might as well show them to girls. For example, if you like music, you can recommend some songs or artists you like. By sharing your interests and hobbies, you can also attract girls' attention and find common topics.
Finding common topics with girls requires certain observation and communication skills. By observing their hobbies, asking questions, sharing experiences, paying attention to current events, and showing your own interests and hobbies, you can more easily find common topics with girls. Remember, sincerity and respect for each other's interests are the foundation of a good relationship.
