When it comes to the topic of university romance, I can't help but want to share some thoughts. As someone who has been through it, I believe that love during university is truly special. I remember back then, my roommate and I often discussed how to pursue girls in our dorm and shared our own romantic experiences. Looking back now, it's both amusing and nostalgic.
First of all, I want to say that university is indeed a great time for romance. As mentioned in the article, the cost is low! Eating in the cafeteria and watching movies on campus don't cost much. Moreover, everyone is quite innocent, without too much real-life pressure. However, pursuing girls is really an art.
I have a friend whose way of pursuing girls is particularly interesting. He always seeks out introverted, quiet girls to chat with because he thinks they are easier to pursue. Honestly, I initially thought he was a bit "opportunistic," but later I found that he indeed had a high success rate. Of course, this doesn't mean that extroverted girls are harder to pursue; it's just that everyone has different approaches.
When it comes to pursuing girls, I think the most important thing is to have your own goals. The guy mentioned in the article who persistently wrote on Weibo, I think he is really impressive. Although his classmates didn"t understand at first, he persisted and eventually made money. Such a goal-oriented and persevering guy is really attractive. So, I think boys might as well try more things they like in university, and they might attract like-minded girls.
However, romance is not everything in life. I have seen some girls who, once they fall in love, completely immerse themselves in the relationship, neglecting their studies and friends. Such "love obsession" is really not good. As mentioned in the article, love should be a two-way effort, and one should not always accommodate the other. I have a classmate who did a lot for her boyfriend, even washing his feet, but they eventually broke up. This made me understand that in love, one must maintain equality and not lower oneself too much.
Another important point is to protect oneself. Pre-marital cohabitation is quite common now, but I still advise everyone to be cautious. After all, your body is your own, and you must take good care of it. If you encounter irresponsible people, it"s often yourself who gets hurt. Therefore, girls must stay clear-headed in relationships and not be blinded by temporary sweetness.
In summary, university romance is beautiful, but it also needs to be approached rationally. Whether you are a boy or a girl, you should have your own life and goals, and not put all your energy into romance. Love is mutual, and only when both people work hard can they go further.
Finally, I want to say that whether you are single or in a relationship, don"t forget to improve yourself. After all, only by becoming better can you meet better people. I hope everyone can find their own happiness in university!
