Recently, while chatting with a few buddies, the topic of pursuing girls came up, and everyone had their share of bitter experiences. One friend mentioned that every time he chats with a girl, she always responds with an "Oh," leaving him at a loss for how to continue the conversation. This reminded me of some analyses I had read before about the subtext behind a girl saying "Oh." Today, I'd like to share my understanding and some reliable strategies for finding a partner.
Firstly, when a girl says "Oh," it can have many meanings, and the key is to consider the context. For instance, if you're explaining a profound idea and she responds with an "Oh," it might simply mean she understands. But if she says "Oh" after you confess your feelings, it could be more complicated. Sometimes, "Oh" might just be a perfunctory response, indicating she's not interested in the topic or is busy at the moment. Other times, a girl might say "Oh" because she's impatient and hopes you'll pick up on her mood and end the conversation.
I remember once chatting with a girl who kept responding with "Oh," which left me feeling a bit lost. Eventually, I directly asked her, "Do you find me annoying?" She paused, then smiled and said, "No, I'm just a bit tired." At that moment, I realized that sometimes directly expressing your feelings can break the ice.
Of course, a girl saying "Oh" could also be a way of questioning you. For example, if you say something that surprises her, she might say "Oh?" in a questioning tone, and all you need to do is explain in more detail.
So, how should we respond when a girl says "Oh"? I think sometimes it's okay to be a bit assertive and directly tell her not to keep saying "Oh," as it might capsize the boat of friendship. Don't be afraid of offending her; a girl who genuinely wants to chat with you will be willing to continue the conversation. You can also tell her directly that it makes you feel uncomfortable; a high-value man is not afraid to express his true thoughts.
When it comes to finding a partner, I believe the most important thing is equality and mutual respect. If you always accommodate the other person, you'll only make yourself seem inferior. Someone who truly likes you will respect you. So, don't demean your dignity for someone who doesn't appreciate you.
Finally, I want to say that there"s no fixed formula for pursuing a girl; the key is sincerity. Don't be afraid to express your feelings, and don't fear rejection. Only by daring to face your true self can you find someone who is truly right for you. I hope my sharing can be helpful to everyone, and I wish you all the best in finding your own happiness soon.