If a boy likes a girl, he will actively chat with her. However, if you send a message to a girl and the girl is slow to reply, the boy will be very anxious and have random thoughts, thinking that the girl does not like him so she replies to the message. slow? So when a girl is slow to reply to messages during a chat, does that mean she is out of luck? The following is a detailed analysis for everyone.
1. A girl’s slow reply to messages does not mean that she has no chance
In fact, if a girl is slow to reply to messages during chat, it does not mean that you have no chance to catch her. Many boys think that girls are slow to reply, so you have no chance. First of all, this idea is wrong. What really causes you to have no chance is not that girls are slow to reply to messages during chats, but "you feel that because girls are slow to reply to you, you have no chance." In other words, it is because you have such an idea that it leads to You have less and less chance, but you still had a chance, do you understand?
If you have such thoughts, it will easily lead to you revealing that you are a man with little self-confidence when chatting with a girl. Subconsciously, you will be afraid that she will ignore you, which will reflect your "low value" Information, it is precisely because of this information that you and the girl have no chance. You may understand this, right. After clarifying this truth, I believe you will also understand the root cause of why you cannot pursue the girl you like.
2. What should you do if a girl is slow to reply to messages?
Based on the above analysis, when facing a girl When girls respond slowly when chatting, the simplest and most correct way to deal with it is to put away your "wrong ideas" and then do what you should do. Don't hang around the girl you like. In the process, the girl will naturally reply to you. After replying to you, you need to show your value, charm, and humorous chat to attract her. This is what you need to do, and it is also the focus of chasing her, not because the girl is slow to reply to you. You feel like you have no chance.
The main reason is that you are still anxious and unsure of yourself. In such a bad state, how can you pursue her and attract her? I'm afraid it's difficult. So, when faced with a girl's slow response to messages, the next thing you have to do is to adjust yourself and deal with the anxiety and lack of confidence in your heart. There are actually no special skills on how to resolve your inner anxiety and how to adjust your mentality.
The only way is to control yourself. To control your emotions, you not only have to not express them, but you also have to find ways to "think more openly". This is actually not difficult at all. The best way to resolve anxiety and adjust your mentality is to self-direct. You have to tell yourself that it’s not because a girl is slow to reply and you don’t have a chance, but because you are too hasty when a girl replies slowly, so your chance becomes smaller. The problem Out of yourself.
If you encounter a situation where girls are slow to reply to messages when chatting, only by understanding this can you help yourself, and thus emerge as a confident, charming and valuable you. Only by interacting and chatting with girls can you achieve this, and your problems will naturally be solved.
