Recently, I've come across many videos about first love, which made me want to discuss this topic with everyone. Honestly, first love is truly the most beautiful yet awkward stage in life. I remember a video where a girl was so nervous on her first date that she spilled her drink. Instead of being annoyed, the boy gently helped her clean the table. The comments were filled with screams of "Aww, so sweet!" and some said, "This kind of boy is too gentle!"
Actually, boys don't need to overthink during the first love stage. I've summarized that doing these three things is enough:
First, maintain sincerity. A netizen put it very well: "Pretended gentleness is fake, genuine care is real." Like the boy who helped the girl clean the table, his actions were completely instinctive, and this sincerity is what truly touches the heart.
Second, learn to listen. First love girls are always very concerned about their image, afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. If a boy can patiently listen to her and give her a sense of security, she will gradually let down her guard. In one video, the boy listened attentively as the girl talked about her favorite anime, even though he wasn't interested himself, but his attentiveness really added points.
Third, be appropriately humorous. First love inevitably comes with some small embarrassments, like when a girl accidentally says or does the wrong thing. If a boy can use humor to diffuse the awkwardness, the atmosphere will become much more relaxed. I particularly like a scene from a video: the girl accidentally smeared lipstick on the boy's clothes, and the boy smiled and said, "Now my clothes have your scent too." Instantly, the awkwardness turned into sweetness.
Actually, the most precious thing about first love is its purity and beauty. There's no need to deliberately pursue perfection; maintaining sincerity, learning to listen, and being appropriately humorous can allow this relationship to grow naturally. As the comments said, "The best love is when two people can be their truest selves together."
So, boys, don't overthink it, and girls, relax. The beauty of first love lies in its innocence and sincerity. Let's cherish this beauty and enjoy the initial form of love together!