Chatting with girls is the cheapest way to improve mutual understanding, especially girls you have just met. But many boys will encounter situations where girls only reply with one or two words, such as um or eh. So what do girls’ replies mean? Let me explain to you what does it mean when a girl pronounces um? This is actually a subtext for girls.
What does it mean when a girl says um?
Boys who are more careful will find that all the emotions of girls are actually hidden in the number of words they reply to you. The most obvious manifestation is that when they are happy, they will reply a lot more times, and when they are unhappy, they will reply more often. Over time, the number of replies will become very few. Some people may say this, but when a girl talks to me, she usually likes to reply "um" or "um". With these two words, how can I tell if she is happy? Or are you still unhappy? First of all, let’s talk about this um. In our understanding, it is generally divided into two meanings:
The first one is the habit of girls. Say um
Why do girls get used to saying um? It's just that this girl is too lazy to reply. It is said that everyone likes to use this um instead of information. This is not perfunctory, but a behavioral habit of hers. As long as you get along with her for a long time, you will find that she actually treats everyone the same, so if You know her well. Even if she usually chats with you, she still likes to reply to you with one word. Don't think too much about it. Yes, she is just lazy.
The second type is that girls don’t want to chat with you
There is another meaning when girls say um, that is, girls are a bit resistant to chatting with you. No matter what the reason is, in most cases Next, this "um" from a girl generally represents an indifferent attitude. It may be that your topic is boring and she wants to use this indifferent reply to end the conversation. Or she is in a bad mood and simply doesn't want to talk to you. , or you are not familiar with each other in the first place, but in her eyes, you are a stranger. At this time, she will also use this indifferent attitude to guard against you.
So, if boys say um when they meet a girl, except for the first situation, if girls are used to this, they can just say eh directly. She said goodbye. Boys should also learn to cut their losses. If a girl always only replies one word even when chatting, then you can find a new partner and don't waste too much energy on a tree.
