Recently, a friend came to me with a complaint. He said the girl he likes mentioned she had a stomachache, and he didn't know how to respond, fearing he might say the wrong thing and kill the conversation. I laughed upon hearing this—it's such a typical straight male way of thinking! Actually, when a girl says she has a stomachache, it's a great opportunity to show off your high emotional intelligence.
I remember once when my girlfriend told me she had a stomachache. I immediately responded, "Oh, is your little tummy throwing a tantrum? Tell it that I'm here, and it's not allowed to bully you." She laughed and said I was really good with words. In fact, this kind of humorous teasing not only eases her discomfort but also lightens the mood.
However, while humor is important, showing genuine concern is crucial. For example, you could say, "Sweetheart, it hurts me to see you in discomfort. Drink some warm water and lie down; I'll take care of you." This kind of tender and caring response will definitely make her feel your warmth and thoughtfulness.
Of course, if your relationship is already quite intimate, you can also go for something more heartfelt. For instance, "Darling, when you feel unwell, just think of me. My love will give you strength." This type of deep and committed response is sure to move her deeply.
But I must remind you, humorous teasing should be done in moderation—don"t overdo it. For example, a netizen shared his painful experience: he told his girlfriend, "Haha, did you overeat because you were competing with me for food in your dream last night?" His girlfriend simply replied, "Get lost!" Haha, poor guy.
In summary, when a girl says she has a stomachache, the key is to make her feel your concern and care. Whether it's tender care, humorous teasing, or deep commitment, as long as you express it sincerely, she will definitely feel your love. Remember, a high EQ response not only makes her feel better but also brings your relationship to the next level!
Finally, I want to say that finding love isn"t that hard. The key is to learn to empathize and consider things from the girl's perspective. Like my friend, who is now successfully in a relationship and has a great bond with his girlfriend. So, single brothers, keep it up! Believe that you can also find your own happiness!
