Recently, I had a gathering with a few university classmates, and the topic of campus romance came up, evoking a lot of emotions. Some said that university romance is the purest, while others felt that they were too young and naive back then. As someone who has been through it, I'd like to share some insights about university romance.
Let's start with how guys pursue girls. I remember a guy in our dorm who was particularly skilled at chasing girls. His summarized experience was: instead of persistently chasing after the most popular girls, it's better to pay more attention to those who are introverted. This might sound a bit "scheming," but it does make sense. Those outgoing girls often have many suitors, making the competition too fierce. On the other hand, introverted girls are more easily moved by sincerity, and the success rate is higher.
However, instead of constantly thinking about how to chase girls, it"s better to improve oneself first. I know a senior who spent all four years of university focusing on writing articles. Although few understood him at the time, he became a well-known blogger after graduation. Now that he's successful in his career, a girlfriend naturally came along. As a commenter online said: "A real man need not worry about having no wife." Although this sounds a bit chauvinistic, it does reveal a truth: when you are excellent enough, love will naturally come knocking.
For girls, I think the most important thing is to keep a clear head. Although university romance is beautiful, it"s also important to know how to protect oneself. I remember a junior telling me that she used to lose herself easily in relationships, always accommodating the other person. Later, she learned to stick to her principles and, as a result, gained a healthier relationship. A commenter said, "Girls should be financially independent," which I strongly agree with. Financial independence not only gives you more confidence but also avoids a lot of unnecessary trouble.
Speaking of financial issues, I recall a real case. A girl had a very unpleasant experience because her boyfriend kept borrowing money and not paying it back. So, girls must remember: if the other person is always borrowing money from you, be very cautious. Love is mutual, not a one-sided effort.
Finally, I want to say that although university romance is beautiful, don"t take it too seriously. A commenter said, "Don't place all your hopes on the other person," which is very well said. Romance is a part of life, but not all of it. Whether you're a guy or a girl, remember to maintain your independence and space for growth.
University time flies by, and I hope everyone can grow through their romantic experiences, not leaving regrets. Remember, the best love makes both people better. May we all meet the right person in our youth, but even if we don"t, let's live our own wonderful lives.
