Recently, while chatting with friends about late-night topics, I suddenly realized how much depth lies behind the simple phrase "goodnight." I remember once receiving a message from a girl saying, "I'm going to sleep," and I was left dumbfounded. Was this a signal to end the conversation or an invitation to keep chatting?
Later, I summarized three tricks to share with my brothers who are struggling to find a partner. The first trick is not to rush to say "goodnight." Instead, try responding with "sweet dreams" or "see you in your dreams." One netizen mentioned that after using this trick, the girl proactively chatted with him the next day about her dreams from the night before, which immediately opened up a new topic.
The second trick is to share a song before bed. I've noticed that many girls enjoy listening to music before sleep. Sharing a piece of light music or a folk song suitable for bedtime not only shows your taste but also keeps the conversation going. Data shows that over 70% of girls feel touched when they receive music shared by a guy.
The third trick is to create anticipation. For example, you could say, "I'll tell you something interesting tomorrow" or "I'll share a secret with you when you wake up." This trick is particularly effective. A friend of mine successfully arranged a meeting with the girl he liked the next day using this method.
In fact, the most important aspect of late-night chatting is sincerity. A netizen commented, "No matter how many tricks you have, nothing beats genuine sincerity." I completely agree with this statement. Instead of racking your brains for tricks, it's better to genuinely understand the other person's preferences and find common topics.
Finally, a reminder to everyone: know when to stop chatting. If the other person is really tired, don't force the conversation. After all, a guy who knows when to stop is often seen as more attractive in the eyes of a girl. What do you think? Feel free to share your late-night chatting tips in the comments section~