In the special situation of blind date, how to talk is a crucial step. Not only will it break the awkwardness of a first meeting, it may also set the stage for future growth.
Be polite and direct. The purpose of most blind dates is to lead to marriage. When you meet a blind date you like, you might as well express your thoughts generously and politely. For example, you can say sincerely: "It's nice to meet you. I think we are very compatible. I hope to continue to get along with you. What do you think of me?" Regardless of whether the other party accepts or rejects, treat each other with courtesy. After all, feelings are a matter between two people.
Proactively looking for topics is key. You can first ask about the other person's usual interests and hobbies, "What do you usually do in your free time? Do you have any activities that you particularly like?" If the other person is a homebody and likes watching movies or watching TV series, then you can talk about recent popular film and television works. , share your own feelings and listen to each other’s opinions.
Furthermore, don’t fall into the misunderstanding that “whoever takes the initiative loses”. No matter how we meet, if both parties do not take the initiative to take the first step, the relationship will never advance. Therefore, bravely show your positive attitude, such as taking the initiative to share interesting things about your life, or asking the other person if they have encountered anything interesting recently.
You can also think about the problem from the other person's perspective. For example, care about whether the other person is busy at work and stressed, and express your understanding and consideration for their life and work. This kind of care can make the other person feel warm and comfortable, making them more willing to open up and communicate with you.
Chatting with a blind date requires sincerity, initiative, understanding and respect. Starting a conversation in the right way can create a good start for the blind date journey and increase the possibility of further understanding and development of each other. I hope that everyone can find the person who fits their soul in the blind date and start a happy future.
