What do girls in love think about every day? This question sounds simple, but the psychological activities behind it are so complex that they can be overwhelming. As someone who has also been deeply entangled in the whirlpool of love, I will talk about the issues that girls often think about in love, as well as some psychological boundaries that must not be touched.
First of all, girls in love really think a lot. For example, they will occasionally recall your first kiss, the feeling of a racing heart, as if it were just yesterday. They will also often ask themselves, "Does he miss me?" Every time the phone rings, they will expect it to be your message, even if it's just a simple "What are you doing?" This expectation and uneasiness are intertwined, forming their daily psychological activities.
Moreover, girls can't help but fantasize about your future. They will imagine what it would be like to live together, and even name your future children. It sounds a bit exaggerated, but this is indeed a way for them to express their love. They hope that this relationship will have a happy ending, so they will constantly think about how to make this relationship more stable.
Of course, girls also worry a lot. For example, they will ask themselves, "Am I good enough?" "Will he change his heart?" These questions may seem trivial, but they are the most genuine concerns deep in their hearts. They hope to be the best in your heart, but they are also afraid of losing you.
Speaking of this, we have to mention the psychological boundaries of girls in love. These boundaries must not be touched, otherwise the consequences may be serious.
The first boundary is: Never help your boyfriend borrow money or take out a loan. No matter how sincere he is, no matter how much he swears he loves you, don"t agree. Because once you borrow this money, you will be the one to pay it back in the end. He may find various reasons to shirk, and you will have to bear all the risks. As netizen "Mrs. Jvlu 66" said: "A little more rationality can avoid a lot of unnecessary harm."
The second boundary is: Do not get pregnant before marriage. Even if you think he is the one, don"t gamble with your life. Getting pregnant before marriage will put you in a passive position, and both your body and mind will suffer heavy damage. Netizen "Bu Ranmo" also mentioned: "Getting pregnant before marriage does make women more passive, and the harm is greater, especially physically. And men can basically get away with it."
The third boundary is: Do not give up your ability to earn money. Even if he says "I will support you," don't get carried away. Because over time, the one who is psychologically unbalanced is you, and the one who has to put up with it is you. After a breakup, the one who struggles is still you. Nowadays, girls are increasingly aware of this, which is also one of the reasons why the birth rate is relatively low now.
The last boundary is: Never be a third party. Even if you like this person very much, don't lose your dignity. Being a third party will not only make you lose your reputation, but may also destroy someone else's family. Your parents worked hard to raise you so that you can live a happy life, not to get you into such a predicament.
In general, girls in love think about many issues every day, both expectations for the future and worries about the present. They hope that this relationship will have a happy ending, and they also hope to maintain their independence and dignity in this relationship. Therefore, as a boyfriend, what you need to do is not only to give them enough understanding and security, but also to respect their boundaries and choices.
Love is a two-way journey, and only when both parties work hard can they go further. I hope that every girl in love can find someone who truly understands and cherishes you.
