Question: The blind date girl introduced by my family had normal chat content when she added WeChat on the first day, but her replies were very slow. She replied in 10 minutes, and only said a few words in an hour. I thought she was busy behind the scenes. When asked what she was doing, she said she was watching dramas.
Then I shared my daily life with her around 5 pm the next day, and then she replied to me at 9 pm and asked what she was doing. She said she was going to take a shower. This time we chatted It ended without any illness again.
The third chat was on the fifth day after adding WeChat. It was obvious that she would not take the initiative to find me if I didn’t find her. Chat, so I took the initiative to send her a message with the content as shown below. I would like to ask everyone if I was too hasty. When we haven’t met yet, we shouldn’t forcefully find someone to chat with. Waiting until we meet and we have a good relationship to chat will not be so abrupt. ? Or does it mean that the date girl’s slow reply on WeChat is a rejection? what do I do?
Is the blind date girl’s slow reply on WeChat a rejection?
Answer: With all due respect, if the blind date girl’s WeChat reply is slow like the one you encountered, it is actually a kind of polite rejection, but you didn’t understand it and are still insisting on sending it to her. Send a message and she might reply you out of politeness.
In fact, whether it is a girl you met on a blind date or a girl you come into contact with in daily life, having awkward conversations is boring. You should chat with girls in a planned, purposeful and step-by-step manner.
And most people don’t have the time to chat while watching dramas. On the one hand, it means that you chose the wrong time to chat with a girl. On the other hand, it means that she has no interest in blind dates and is resistant to it. So the second time you chat with her, she directly replies to you and says that she has gone to take a shower, but you don't I'm embarrassed to talk to her again. Moreover, when you sent a message at around 5pm, she politely replied to you about taking a shower at around 9pm, which was a polite way of terminating contact.
Another problem is that sharing daily life is meaningless. Who do girls on blind dates know about you? What does what you eat and do have anything to do with her? So if you simply share what you want to share, the other party will be completely uninterested and will find you incomprehensible.
Also, you said that you haven’t met yet, so it’s not good to rush it. It’s better to be thirsty for each other after meeting, and then continue chatting if you feel it’s appropriate. This way, the success rate will be much higher. .
Then when I took a screenshot of this part, I felt that you were a little bit aggressive and she exploded immediately. She probably thought you were annoying and had been putting up with it for a long time. And didn’t she already make it clear that it was inappropriate? It means she has no interest in you at all from beginning to end. It's more like not wanting to go on a blind date at all. so youDon't put your hot face on your cold butt. Just go to the next one.
I hope you can avoid the above problems next time you go on a blind date, otherwise you may still encounter rejection.
