Recently, I had a gathering with several university classmates, and the topic of campus romance came up, evoking a flood of emotions. Some said that university romance is the purest, while others felt that they were too young to manage relationships properly at that time. As someone who has been through it, I believe that university romance is indeed a unique experience, and today I want to share some of my insights.
First of all, university is truly the best time to fall in love. I remember back then, the cost of dating was really low. A meal at the cafeteria cost just over ten yuan, movie tickets were only twenty or thirty yuan with student discounts, and even studying together at the library on weekends could count as a date. A netizen commented, "The most beautiful thing about university romance is not having to consider too many practical issues, just purely enjoying the feeling of being in love." This is indeed true, as post-graduation relationships involve many more considerations.
When it comes to pursuing a girl, I think the most important thing is to find a method that suits you. Some people are naturally charming and can attract girls without much effort. But for ordinary people like me, being proactive is necessary. However, being proactive also requires strategy. For example, introverted girls are often more moved by sincerity, while extroverted girls may require more patience and skill.
I remember a university roommate who had a unique way of pursuing girls. He didn"t confess his feelings directly but first became friends with the girl, gradually learning about her interests and hobbies. For instance, if the girl liked reading, he would often "bump into" her at the library; if she liked music, he would participate in campus singing competitions. Eventually, they got together and have maintained a stable relationship ever since. This taught me that winning over a girl isn't something that happens overnight; it requires careful nurturing.
Speaking of nurturing a relationship, I believe the most important thing is to keep it fresh. A netizen shared, "My boyfriend and I have been together for three years, but we still regularly prepare little surprises for each other, like writing a love letter or suddenly appearing at each other's classroom door." These small romantic gestures really help keep the relationship warm.
Additionally, giving each other space is also crucial. During university, my girlfriend and I were both part of the student council and were usually very busy. But we agreed to have at least one night a week that was just for the two of us, no matter how busy we were. This sense of ritual kept our relationship stable.
Finally, I want to say that while university romance is beautiful, it"s important not to be too obsessed. If you meet someone who isn't right for you, letting go in time is also a form of wisdom. After all, the most important thing in university is learning and growing; romance is just a part of life. As a senior I know once said, "During university, I focused on entrepreneurship. Although I missed out on romance, now that my career is successful, I've met an even better partner."
In conclusion, university romance is a course that requires careful study. I hope my experiences can help those who are currently or will soon be experiencing university romance. Remember, no matter the outcome, this experience will become a valuable memory in your life.
