Chatting with a girl is definitely not just about chatting, but also about chasing her through chatting. But when we first chat with a girl, because we are not particularly familiar with each other, we can only build trust through topics step by step. Close relationship, so what should be done?
How to quickly get closer to a girl when you start chatting with her?
1. Chat about appropriate topics
Be sure to choose appropriate topics when chatting with girls at the beginning. First of all Avoid topics involving love or personal emotions. After all, you are not familiar with each other. If you start talking about such a sensitive topic, it will appear that you have bad intentions. Choose some simple topics, such as talking about each other's favorite food, recent experiences. Some interesting things, etc., but after practice, the topics that girls are more interested in mainly focus on clothing matching and TV series, so starting from these two topics when chatting is more conducive to opening up girls' chat boxes.
2. Learn to take care of girls’ emotions
It is said that a woman’s heart is under the sea, but you do not need to go to the sea. Just find the needle and know what the needle looks like. Regarding taking care of girls’ emotions, to give you the simplest example, girls often don’t need you to provide solutions to problems unless they really want something from you. For example, when she is complaining to you that she is unhappy because of something today, she just wants to talk to you about her unhappy emotions, rather than asking you to provide solutions. At this time, you only need to step into her emotions, Resonate freely and your relationship will definitely be further enhanced.
For another example, when a girl comes to tell you that she has a stomachache, she does not ask you to say something like "drink more hot water or get more rest", but she needs to say something like "If only I could be by your side at this time, I would..." Let the girl's emotions be comforted. This is the importance of taking care of girls' emotions.
3. Appetizing ending
After chatting with the girl, both of them wanted to Take a break and plan to talk again. If you end it hastily, the next time you chat, you will feel like you are back to the time when you first met. You will still feel a little awkward while chatting, and the chat will start to become stiff again. state.
So a good ending can also be a good start for the next chat. At the end, you can leave a sentence, "There are still many topics that have not been finished, I will talk to you slowly next time," or "There are many interesting things, I will talk to you next time," and then the girl will reply to you. A very expectant expression. At the end, whet the girl's appetite and make her look forward to your next chat, which is very helpful in eliminating the strangeness between each other and quickly getting closer.
