What should I do if I can’t pick up the conversation when I’m chatting with a girl? This is a problem that many boys encounter. When communicating with a girl, if there is no common topic or her interest cannot be aroused, it is easy for embarrassing situations to arise. So how to deal with it? Below I will introduce you to several quick response methods.
1. Ask her questions about herself
When you find yourself at a loss for words when chatting with a girl While talking, try asking some questions about yourself. For example, ask her if she likes the dress you're wearing, or what she thinks of something you just said. This will not only attract her attention, but also allow her to get to know you better.
2. Talk about common interests and hobbies
If you already know some of the girls’ hobbies, you can try to talk about this topic. For example, if she likes traveling, you can ask her where she has been recently or share her travel experiences. This will not only increase mutual understanding, but also find common ground.
3. Tell interesting stories
If you have some interesting stories or experiences, you can try to share them with girls. For example, you have participated in an interesting activity, or met a strange character, etc. This will not only arouse the girl's interest, but also allow her to get to know you better.
4. Ask her what she thinks and feels
If you find that you have nothing to say, you can try asking the girl what she thinks and feels. For example, ask her what she thinks about something, or ask her if she has any worries recently. This can not only increase communication between each other, but also make the girl feel that you care about her.
When chatting with a girl, don’t be nervous if you can’t answer the call. You can try asking questions about yourself, talking about common interests, telling interesting stories, or asking girls about their thoughts and feelings, etc. As long as you find the right topic, you can easily deal with any embarrassing situation.
