Recently, while chatting with a few single friends, I discovered a common concern: how to find the right partner? Especially for guys who want to pursue beautiful girls, it often feels like there's no starting point. In reality, pursuing girls isn't as difficult as it seems; the key is to master some high emotional intelligence (EQ) techniques. Today, I'll share a few methods that can make girls fall for you, based on my own experiences and some insights from netizens, to help you get out of singlehood quickly.
First, it's important to understand that when a girl says "Ah, this," it's often a reaction of surprise or being at a loss. For example, when you confess your feelings, give a gift, or ask her out, and she suddenly responds with "Ah, this," don't panic. A netizen shared that when he confessed his feelings and heard the girl say "Ah, this," he immediately replied, "Don't feel pressured, my liking you is my business, and you don't need to respond right away." The girl found his response considerate, and they ended up together. So, in such situations, the most important thing is to reduce pressure and give the girl enough space and time to think.
Secondly, expanding your social circle is crucial. A friend told me that he was single for a long time until he started attending more social gatherings, such as friends" weddings, company dinners, and even interest group activities. At one of these gatherings, he met his current girlfriend. He said, "Actually, girls aren't hard to pursue; the key is to have the opportunity to meet them." So, don't stay cooped up at home; go out more, and you might find your match waiting for you at some gathering.
Now, let"s talk about self-improvement. Many guys feel that their average looks make it impossible to pursue beautiful girls. In reality, what girls value is not just appearance but also your potential and personality. A netizen shared that he didn't consider himself handsome but gained confidence through fitness and learning. Eventually, he pursued a very beautiful girl who said, "I like your ambition and sense of humor." So, instead of dwelling on your shortcomings, read more, exercise more, and turn yourself into a potential catch.
Lastly, a sense of humor is a big plus. Girls love people who can make them laugh. A friend of mine is great at telling jokes and always makes everyone laugh at gatherings. He ended up pursuing a very beautiful girl who said, "Being with you is always fun; it makes life more interesting." So, learning to be humorous not only makes you more popular in social settings but also makes girls develop a liking for you.
In summary, pursuing girls isn"t that complicated; the key is to master some high EQ techniques, improve yourself, and expand your social circle. I hope these tips help you get out of singlehood soon! If you have any insights on pursuing girls, feel free to share them in the comments section~
