Recently, while chatting with a few buddies, I discovered a common dilemma: how to respond when a girl says, "My period has come." Honestly, this topic is quite a headache, as it involves a private matter for women, and a slight misstep could lead to trouble. Today, I'll discuss this topic based on my own experiences and some comments from netizens.
First, we need to understand that during their menstrual period, women are both physically and emotionally vulnerable. At this time, what they need most is care and consideration. As the netizen "Little Sun" said, "During their period, women really hope someone can understand their feelings. Even a simple word of concern can make them feel warm."
So, how exactly should one respond? I've summarized a few high EQ response strategies for your reference.
**The Gentle Concern Type** is the most common and effective. For example: "Honey, you must take good care of yourself at this time. I wish I could be there with you to warm your belly." This response shows concern without being too abrupt. Netizen "Big Bear" shared his experience: "My girlfriend always feels terrible during her period, so I often send her messages like this, and she always says she's touched."
**The Action-Oriented Type** is also very popular. For example: "Let me order you a hot drink delivery to warm you up a bit." This response not only expresses concern but also takes concrete action. Netizen "Little Fly" said, "Once when my girlfriend was on her period, I directly ordered her some brown sugar ginger tea, and she later praised me on her social media."
**The Humorous Type** suits those who enjoy a light-hearted atmosphere. For example: "Oh no, Aunt Flo, the 'uninvited guest,' is bothering you again. Let's give her a good 'lesson' once she's gone." This response can bring a bit of fun to a woman during her discomfort. Netizen "A Jie" shared his success story: "My girlfriend really likes my humorous responses. She says every time she sees my messages, her mood improves."
Of course, besides these response strategies, we can also show our concern through small details. For instance, preparing heating pads, brown sugar water in advance, or chatting with her to distract her when she"s uncomfortable. Netizen "Little Deer" mentioned, "My boyfriend always prepares heating pads and hot drinks for me during my period. Although it's not a big deal, it really makes me feel cared for."
In summary, what women need most during their menstrual period is our care and consideration. As long as we respond thoughtfully, not only can we make them feel warm, but we can also enhance our relationship. As netizen "Little North" said, "Actually, women don't ask for much. They just hope that during their most vulnerable times, someone can be by their side, offering a bit of warmth."
So, guys, next time a girl tells you her "Aunt Flo has arrived," don't be at a loss. Try these high EQ response strategies! Trust me, your care and consideration will surely make her see you in a new light.
