Recently, while walking around campus, I often see couples everywhere, which reminds me of my own experience of "finding love" during university. Today, I want to talk about this topic, hoping to offer some inspiration to those who are still single.
Honestly, university is indeed the best time for romance. I remember back then, having a meal in the cafeteria with my roommate cost just over ten yuan; a movie on the weekend with a student ticket was only 20 yuan. Compared to the cost of dating after starting work, it was practically a bargain! As one netizen commented, "Dating in university is the most economical; after starting work, one date could cost you a month's worth of savings." This couldn't be more true.
When it comes to pursuing girls, I've noticed an interesting phenomenon: those who appear aloof are actually easier to win over. I recall a very quiet girl in our class who didn't talk much, but later we found out she was actually very eager for attention. On the other hand, outgoing girls, who have too many suitors, are harder to pursue. A netizen shared, "Pursuing a girl requires strategy; you can't just confess your feelings right away. Start as friends first." This advice is very sound.
However, I believe the most important thing is to improve oneself. During university, I knew a senior who wrote a blog every day. At the time, many didn"t understand and thought it was a waste of time. But he persisted for six years and eventually made money from writing. Looking back, his focus and persistence actually made him more attractive. As another netizen said, "Instead of always thinking about how to pursue a girl, why not make yourself outstanding first."
Speaking of self-improvement, I have a small suggestion: find your interests and goals. For example, if you like photography, join a photography club; if you enjoy sports, go to the gym. This not only helps you meet like-minded friends but also makes you more attractive. A netizen shared, "I met my girlfriend at the gym, and now we often work out together, and our relationship is great." Relationships that start from shared interests often last longer.
Of course, if you haven"t met the right person yet, don't rush. I have a friend who was single all through university, focused on his career after graduation, and now, successful in his career, many girls are pursuing him. As another netizen said, "A great man need not worry about finding a wife; first make yourself outstanding, and a good marriage will naturally follow."
Finally, here"s an interesting little story. I heard someone used the "peach blossom method" to attract romantic luck, drying and crushing peach blossoms and placing them under their pillow. Although it sounds a bit mystical, who knows, it might actually work? A netizen joked, "I tried it, and all I got was a bunch of mosquitoes." Haha, seems like this method should be used with caution.
In conclusion, while dating during university is beautiful, what"s more important is to cherish this time and strive to improve yourself. Remember, the best love often comes unexpectedly when you become a better version of yourself. Wishing everyone finds their own happiness at university!
