Recently, I've come across numerous discussions online about how to respond to girls with high emotional intelligence, especially when they say "Ah, this." Honestly, it reminds me of some of my own experiences when I was younger, times when I was completely at a loss and had no idea how to continue the conversation. Today, I want to talk about this topic and share some techniques that I find quite practical.
Firstly, when a girl says "Ah, this," it usually indicates that she is somewhat surprised or at a loss. At this moment, your response is crucial as it directly affects the direction of your relationship. For instance, during a confession, if a girl says "Ah, this," it might mean she is not ready to accept you yet. At this point, do not pressure her; give her some space and time. You could say, "Don't feel pressured, my liking you is my own affair, and you don't need to respond immediately." This way, you express your feelings without making her feel burdened.
Another example is when you"re trying to escalate the relationship, and the girl says "Ah, this," possibly because she feels things are moving too fast. Here, you can use some light-hearted humor to ease the atmosphere. For example, "Haha, why are you so nervous? I didn't say I must marry you." This not only lightens the mood but also lets her feel your sense of humor.
When giving a gift, if a girl says "Ah, this," it might be because she thinks the gift is too expensive or she's not ready to accept your kindness. You could say, "Don't feel pressured, this thing is very cheap, and I think it suits you perfectly." This allows her to accept the gift without feeling burdened.
When inviting a girl out, if she says "Ah, this," it might be because she's not ready to go out with you. You could say, "Let's talk about it when we both have some free time." This doesn't make her feel pressured and gives her some time to think.
In summary, high emotional intelligence responses require you to be observant, know when to ease the pressure on the girl, and let her feel your thoughtfulness and humor. Of course, these techniques are not foolproof; the key still lies in the interaction and chemistry between you two.
Lastly, I want to say that matters of the heart really cannot be forced. Sometimes, letting things take their natural course can lead to unexpected rewards. I hope these little tips can help you, and I wish everyone can find their own happiness.
