Falling in love is a very common operation in daily life, but many people who lack love experience will inevitably make some mistakes and make some mistakes when getting along with girls. For example, some introverted boys never talk to girls, and when they do, they don't know what to talk about. They start the chat with "Hello" and end the chat with "Hello". The brief conversation contained only two repeated sentences, which made the love counselors sad and the listeners weeping.
When a girl flirts with a boy, she already knows the boy's purpose. Therefore, it is self-evident in the eyes of girls that chatting is for the purpose of getting closer to each other. When a boy takes the initiative to flirt with a girl, if he wants to arouse emotions, he must say things that the girl is interested in. Only in this way can he establish a sense of security → increase connection → build emotion.
1. Analyze the girl’s personality
If you want a girl to accept your opening statement, you have to analyze the girl’s Character traits, and then determine the tone of your language based on her personality. Don't be too noisy in front of elegant girls, and don't be too depressed in front of enthusiastic girls. If it is difficult to do this, it will be difficult for boys to continue chatting with girls. This is a typical situation when falling in love.
2. Determine girls’ hobbies
When a boy determines a girl’s interests and hobbies, it is easier for him to cater to her in terms of language and behavior. If a girl likes fitness, a boy can Buy a treadmill for a girl so that she doesn’t have to run out of breath in slippers in the middle of the night. By satisfying girls' hobbies and needs, it is easy to build trust and security between girls and boys, and the emotional consolidation will naturally be improved.
3. Become a girl’s confidant
When chasing girls, you need to show the attractiveness of boys, the purpose is to attract girls If you like a boy, the best way to achieve your goal is to become "the person who understands her". Maybe this means that you don't have the wings of a colorful phoenix, but you have a clear understanding of your heart. The sense of identity is something that many people long for. The best way to skillfully use the sense of identity in love is to become a girl’s confidant!
4. Avoid asking and answering
Boys When chatting with girls, the topics they talk about are improvised. When I have nothing to say, I keep asking questions: How tall are you? How old are you? Do you have any photos without makeup... This kind of question-and-answer method only satisfies boys. Curiosity usually seems boring to girls, so it should be avoided as much as possible in the opening remarks when chatting with girls.
