Recently, while browsing videos, I came across a lot of content about dating techniques, which sparked an interesting thought: Can boys who consider themselves tongue-tied really not pursue girls? As someone who has been through it, I find this question quite intriguing, and today I want to discuss it.
First of all, I want to say that being tongue-tied is really not a big issue. Many people think that dating requires sweet talk and the ability to make girls happy, but in reality, what truly moves girls is often not the flowery words, but your sincerity and actions. Like a comment I saw before, a netizen said: "My boyfriend is really bad with words, but every time I'm sick, he silently cooks porridge and buys medicine for me. Although he never says 'I love you,' I know he truly cares about me." You see, actions speak louder than words, right?
Speaking of actions, I think listening is also a particularly important point. Many people feel that they are tongue-tied and can"t speak well, but in fact, girls often don't need you to talk non-stop; they need you to listen to them seriously. Like a friend of mine, her boyfriend doesn't talk much usually, but every time she's feeling down, he quietly stays by her side, listening to her vent. She said: "Although he's not good at comforting, the feeling of being understood is really warm." So, tongue-tied boys, don't worry, learn to listen, and you can also become the warm man in a girl's heart.
Of course, besides sincerity and listening, showing your unique charm is also very important. Everyone has their own shining points; maybe you're good at sports, or you're particularly good at cooking, or even just very attentive and considerate, these are all your charms. I know a guy who doesn't talk much usually, but he's really good at photography. Every time he goes out with his girlfriend, he takes a lot of beautiful photos. His girlfriend said: "Although he's not good at sweet talk, every time I see those photos, I feel really happy." So, don't always focus on your shortcomings, find your strengths, and confidently show them, and girls will naturally be attracted to you.
Additionally, creating shared experiences is also a good way to deepen your relationship. Traveling together, cooking together, or even watching dramas together, these seemingly ordinary little things can actually make your relationship stronger. I remember a netizen shared that her first date with her boyfriend was hiking. Although they didn't talk much along the way, the feeling of walking side by side made her feel very secure. So, don't always think about how to impress girls with words, create more shared experiences, and your relationship will naturally heat up.
Finally, I want to say that love really doesn"t need to be rushed. Tongue-tied boys, don't give up because of temporary setbacks. Love is a marathon, not a sprint; patience and persistence are key. Like a comment I saw before, a netizen said: "I pursued my girlfriend for a whole year. Although she didn't have much feeling for me at first, slowly, she discovered the shining points in me, and now we've been together for three years." You see, as long as you don't give up, love will come.
In summary, being tongue-tied is not the reason you can"t pursue girls. Sincerity, listening, showing charm, creating shared experiences, patience, and persistence are the true essence of love. So, don't always think that being tongue-tied means you can't pursue girls. Feel with your heart, act, and persist, and you will definitely find someone willing to spend the rest of their life with you.